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Jennifer Wagner
I am married with two sons and write the blog "Connect with your Teens through Pop Culture and Technology" and I am also the NY Parenting Teens Examiner.
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Urban-Anthro, Thank you so much for your wonderful comment. You added many great points that I failed to mention in my article. Thanks for helping to educated more people.
Minimum Drinking Age is Unconstitutional and Does More Harm Than Good
Did you know that almost every country has a minimum drinking age of 18, if they even have one at all. Did you also know that the minimum drinking age in the United States was always 18 until 1984? The law almost didn't pass because there was a very heated fight in Congress over passing this ...
Thanks Amy. I also have seen too many good kids get into trouble because of this law. My younger son will turn 21 in less than 2 months and I can't wait. However I still plan on crusading this cause for as long as it takes.
Minimum Drinking Age is Unconstitutional and Does More Harm Than Good
Did you know that almost every country has a minimum drinking age of 18, if they even have one at all. Did you also know that the minimum drinking age in the United States was always 18 until 1984? The law almost didn't pass because there was a very heated fight in Congress over passing this ...
I love your story and can totally relate. Living in NYC, anytime I ever to to any type of bar or event, I feel like the oldest one around. Since it often seems like women over 50 are invisible, the fact that you and your friends were noticed is a pretty good sign.
Would You Rather be a Cougar or a Cow?
Now that I have gotten your attention – and most probably alienated most of you – the answer would be: Neither. Let me clarify so you don't go running from this lovely community of fabulous women thinking that this is a blog written by crazy, narcissistic, shallow lunatics – over 50, of cour...
I totally agree that motherhood is devalued, and the reason for this is because mothers are women. All jobs that are predominately done by women are paid lower than those done by men. Librarians and teachers are paid incredibly small salaries and both of those professions require masters degrees. The only reason is because these jobs are filled mostly by women.
Both families and women are devalued here, but with the government made up of mostly men, this is unlikely to change
The real truth behind the mommy wars?
A few years back I was a regular reader of The Juggle. I had to stop. I just couldn't take reading the attacks against parents in the comments section. True a family doesn't have to consist of children, but the reality is if we collectively decided to stop bearing children, then we'd cease to...
Your story really moved me. I'm sorry that I didn't form a closer relationship with my mother's friends. I feel like I have almost no links to my family's past and my childhood anymore.
Is blood thicker than water?
She’s the only person left on the planet who changed my diapers. She remembers the day I was born. She lives across the country; and I see her very rarely. At 91, she moves a little slower and shakier—but she’s as sharp and salty as ever. She calls to tell me off-color jokes; or to be su...
It amazes me that anyone can enjoy being pregnant. I had bad morning sickness, all day long, and felt terrible most of the time. However, maybe to make up for 9 months of not feeling well, I had very quick and easy labor and deliveries.
I Miss Being Pregnant
I can't believe I'm going to say this, but I miss being pregnant. This is one crazy statement at so many levels. First of all, I was just pregnant not too long ago: my baby boy is only six months old. Secondly, towards the end of that pregnancy, all I did was complain about how tired I was and...
Now that most video games are multiplayer, I find they are great for interacting. Have 2 boys, video games were a big part of their play dates. But as long as they were able to play the games together, I found there was great interaction. Probably more talking then when they did other things.
You Call This a Playdate?
Here's the thing about the word playdate, sometimes the "play" part goes well, and sometimes, well, it just feels like a date. An awkward, stressful, when-will-this-afternoon end date. In the toddler years it's usually a double date with the stranger mom or nanny in tow and then you have to ...
My family never wears shoes inside. I never even had to make that a rule with my kids, they must have taken after me and loved to not wear shoes. And, when their friends come over, they all leave their shoes at the front door also, even though never told to do so. However, I never thought to ask our adult visitors to take their shoes off and never knew that Canada had this custom. Very interesting.
Shoes: On or Off?
It's winter for real up here in the Great White (and frigid - they leave that part out) North and leaving one's footwear at the door is pretty much a given. There are few exceptions to the rule, but no one seems to give it a second thought because mopping up slush, sand and the grit of de-icer...
Although there are many less blogs for parents of tweens, there are tons of websites for tweens themselves. Tween girls are a very big market now and they are being catered to. Maybe eventually sites for their parents will catch up.
Spare the Parents of the Tweens a Thought...
I rarely poke around the blog world anymore. As the Mom of an 11 year old, I just don't easily relate to those parents who are dealing with bottles and diapers and first steps or words. Don't get me wrong. I don't dislike parents with young children. I know how hard that stage is - I have BEEN...
To me, unfriending or unfollowing is no big deal. I understand that sometimes too much info is coming at us and we need to weed down our lists. But, I would be upset if somebody actually blocked me. I really can't understand the reason for it unless the person did something extreme.
Blocked on Twitter: Who me? Couldn't be!
I have officially received my first social media snub. Someone "blocked" me on Twitter. Yes, I know this is totally trivial and silly. But it still stings a little. Here's how it went down. I had a few minutes to waste yesterday so I went in to my Twitter account to take a peek at what was goi...
Rob, TV has gotten both better and worse in recent times. Reality television, which is the furthest thing from real, really does put TV in a bad light. However, there have also been some of the most intelligent, yet entertaining shows on the air in the past few years also, i.e. Lost and Battlestar Galactica. These are shows that make you think, ask questions and discuss matters such as science and philosophy, far outside the realm of typical tv fare. There is no reason to give up television, you just have to find the shows worth watching.
TV and Ad Execs: The Demographics You Value Are Outdated
I see it all the time, and it never stops bothering me. Since I follow the television industry, I look at the TV rankings each week. There will be a list of how many people watched a particular show and there is always another list of how many people in the "valuable 18-49 demographic" watched...
Rob, TV has gotten both better and worse in recent times. Reality television, which is the furthest thing from real, really does put TV in a bad light. However, there have also been some of the most intelligent, yet entertaining shows on the air in the past few years also, i.e. Lost and Battlestar Galactica. These are shows that make you think, ask questions and discuss matters such as science and philosophy, far outside the realm of typical tv fare. There is no reason to give up television, you just have to find the shows worth watching.
TV and Ad Execs: The Demographics You Value Are Outdated
I see it all the time, and it never stops bothering me. Since I follow the television industry, I look at the TV rankings each week. There will be a list of how many people watched a particular show and there is always another list of how many people in the "valuable 18-49 demographic" watched...
I've never had trouble with retinol or retin A products but Alpha Hydroxy Acid products give me a rash so I can't use them. I don't use tons of products, I just make sure that I always put on moisturizer and eye cream after I wash. And I do think that lighter, more natural makeup is definitely better as we get older.
When it comes to skin products, less is more
The cost of anti-aging skincare products should have been enough to make me think twice about how many I purchase. Especially in the middle of a major economic crisis. But it took a stubborn skin rash to prove that less really is more when it comes to the stuff I slather on my face. The weird...
My husband and I never went to sleep away camp. While my kids were growing up attending day camp, I always assumed that they would go, since almost everyone in our neighborhood did. However, neither one of my sons wanted to go. I think it was because they weren't very into sports and liked the creature comforts of home. However they still went away most summers during their teens. They just chose travel camps and University programs instead. They never acquired those long lasting friendships that come from seeing the same kids each year at sleep away, but they met tons of new people, had great times and saw many different places. Not a bad tradeoff.
Camp is Short and Life is Long
This little pearl of wisdom spilled out of my husband while he was on the phone. He was explaining to his cousin how we feel about our kids being counselors at sleep away camp. Our children, at 17 and 20, are working at the summer camp that they have attended for 8 and 11 years, respectively. ...
I've recently begun to experience this with my older son and I love it. Last weekend when I went to Chicago for BlogHer, he went to San Diego for Comic-Con. It was great filling each other in on our conferences, although I think I was a bit more interested in his than he was in mine. The last time that I visited him, he picked out nice restaurants and actually treated me to dinner. My baby has definitely grown up.
When the Kids Grow Up: the Privilege of Parenting Grown-Ups
My London son posted this on his Facebook page. It has been grey and rainy here in London but this is also very funny and I thought you'd like it: In a surprise move J.K. Rowling announced a new Harry Potter book titled: Harry Potter and the Prisoner of a deathly summer. In the book Harry wi...
I can not believe that this type of thing is still happening. I am disgusted by this. Are some people so racist that it doesn't bother them to hurt little children like that. Will we ever stop looking at color and just see people. I guess that even though we elected Obama as president, we still have a very long way to go.
Maybe Not Segregated Drinking Fountains, But Didn't They Stop the Whole Thing When We Were Kids
When I saw the story about the Philadelphia country club that threw out a group of African-American kids, I was devastated. Thanks to EJ Graff, I found a link to local news video of the event - and children whose faces could have been on kids in Selma or Little Rock forty years ago. There w...
Cindy, I completely agree with you. My desire to look younger is totally internal and all comes from being vein. I have always cared more about how I look than I should.
Aging Ungracefully: I don't want to look old!
Just so there is no misunderstanding, I am not complaining about getting older. Mostly because it is much better than the alternative. Also, I enjoy the self-confidence and wisdom that come with age. However, I find that recently it is getting harder and harder to look in a mirror without gett...
The first time our kids do anything new is always scary for parents. Just wait until they start driving. I don't think that there is anything scarier than that.
Letting Go - One Mall at a Time
My daughter was particularly excited when I picked her up from school on Wednesday... not least of all because her summer was finally going to start. "My friends are all going shopping when school gets out on Friday. Can I go too?" She gave me all the pertinent details: the names of the friends...
Starlife, my closet is a mess by the time I am ready to go out usually, because I have to try on so many items before I find something I am not unhappy with.
Aging Ungracefully: I don't want to look old!
Just so there is no misunderstanding, I am not complaining about getting older. Mostly because it is much better than the alternative. Also, I enjoy the self-confidence and wisdom that come with age. However, I find that recently it is getting harder and harder to look in a mirror without gett...
While parenting teens is often challenging, scary and frustrating, it can be very rewarding also. My youngest is just about to exit his teens, and although I do admit my life has become easier, I miss having my kids around. Give the books that she is reading a try, you might like them and you will have so much more to talk about if you do.
Jennifer
http://connectwithyourteens.blogspot.com/
50-something Moms blog
Three days until the teenage years
In precisely three days, I'll enter a special club that consists of baffled, wild-eyed, muttering adults. No, I won't be watching the stock market rise and fall. In three days, my oldest kid will officially become a teenager, and I will suddenly become incredibly dumb. I'm not too worried abou...
I recently had a similar experience with my older son. He is almost 23 and moved cross country for a job. I went to visit him a few weeks ago and we went out to dinner every night. He insisted on treating me for the nicer dinners. He seemed like such an adult. It is really strange to have your child pay when you are out with them.
I also know what you mean about being the oldest of your family. My father passed away about 7 months ago and even though I'm over 50, I feel like an orphan. It is a strange feeling.
Changing of the guard
Since my son left for college, leaving my husband and me with an empty nest, he's been urging me to get a dog---so he would know I'd get daily fresh air and exercise, so I'd have a constant companion and never be lonely. And recently I started to wonder--- when exactly did HE start worrying a...
The real crime is that every time this type of thing happens, it becomes harder and harder to trust people online. In real life, I am a very trusting person and usually give everyone the benefit of the doubt. But online, I can't be that way.
A Sick Mommy Blogger Lie
Watch a video report of this story from ABC. In the mommy blogger circles, many of us are sickened by the recent news of Beccah Beushausen, a blogger who was caught faking her baby's death. Aside from the disgust and pity I feel for Beushausen, it is extremely disappointing because, although ...
I saw a demonstration of the Activeion on one of the morning shows recently and I thought that it looked too good to be true. But now I really believe it. I'm very big on only using water to clean, I dust with those miracle cloths only so I don't need any kind of dusting product. I love the idea of cleaning everything with only water. And what a financial savings not having to buy all those cleaners anymore.
Bill Nye the Science Guy, Activeion, San Jose Tech Museum and Silicon Valley Mom Bloggers (and a GIVEAWAY!)
On Saturday morning, I sent a message out to my Facebook group stating, "I am heading over to the San Jose Tech Museum to meet Bill Nye the Science Guy". Within a few minutes, I had over 25 replies from friends, family and co-workers (current and past) from all over the country saying, "Geek Ou...
Hi Natasha. Thank you for voicing your opinion. I agree that we shouldn't make our decisions based on what people think. But, to me, our children are not just people. They are more important to me than anything else in my life. It didn't even occur to me that I would need to explain my reasoning more than that.
Should Moms Pose Nude?
Until yesterday, this really was not a topic that I ever thought much about. Then I heard that Shirley Jones, aka Shirley Partridge, wants to pose nude in Playboy magazine. Like everyone else, my first thought went to her age. She is 75. But I knew that really wasn't my real concern. I loved t...
I would love to win printer #1. I am in desperate need of a fax machine, and my printer is quickly fading also. This HP looks fantastic.
I also tweeted about this contest: https://twitter.com/jenwag57/status/1740708458
Mother's Day Giveaway: Two HP All-in-One Printers
WINNERS OF THE MOTHER'S DAY GIVEAWAY ARE: Susan Bearman http://2kop.blogspot.com/ WINS the HP OfficejetPro 8500 Premier All-in-One Mocha Mama http://mochamommyonthego.wordpress.com/about/ WINS the HP Photosmart C8180 All-in-One *****************************************************************...
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