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Exploring Love and Relationships via Polyamorous People
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I am not working my butt off building a career and studying later in life so that we can have a comfortable retirement while he spends his spare time indulging in a buffet of different relationships. Continue reading
Posted Sep 17, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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I came to realise that for me monogamy is a two-way experience and remaining monogamous in a relationship with a polyamorous person is a bit like trying to clap with one hand. Continue reading
Posted Aug 16, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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Welcome to Polyamorous People, a blog that takes a brutally honest look at the ups and downs of life when polyamory and monogamy collide. Continue reading
Posted Aug 7, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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Can polymono relationships work well and be at peace when the poly partner is active? Continue reading
Posted Jul 16, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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Polyamory: Would I do it all again knowing what I know now? Would You? Continue reading
Posted Jul 4, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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When I was in a marriage that was supposed to be monogamous my husband and I used to tell each other that as a couple we were more than we were individually. Continue reading
Posted Jun 4, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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Unhealthy non-monogamous relationships can be every bit as bad as unhealthy monogamous relationships, however by taking monogamy out of the equation and adding components such as honesty, communication, forgiveness, empathy etc. a relationship is forced to grow up. Continue reading
Posted May 28, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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The one thing we all have in common when we are in a relationship with someone polyamorous,or even just open, is that we know that we do not have the love of our loved one exclusively. Continue reading
Posted May 1, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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If your dream is to be everything to your partner then polymono probably isn’t a great idea for you; but if your dream is to be everything you can be to yourself then polymono is a great journey. Like any great journey it isn’t always comfortable. Continue reading
Posted Apr 22, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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4 Great Big Lessons I've learned as I move through polymono Continue reading
Posted Apr 4, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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I think taking that freedom and applying it to ourselves and our life can be a much more worthwhile thing to do with it than finding another person to love. Continue reading
Posted Feb 21, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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I could answer this question in a number of ways but the most complete, simple, pared down answer is because it’s good for me. Continue reading
Posted Feb 13, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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As a live-in partner with a long distance metamour I felt like I was the meat and potatoes, while she got to be the much-anticipated dessert. Continue reading
Posted Feb 4, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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Covenants are best thought about alone, discussed together and sealed with a kiss. Continue reading
Posted Jan 27, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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Recently on the Yahoo Polymono board a mono in a newly polyamorous relationship asked what rights she could expect from her poly partner. The initial response by Elise was very good and with her permission I have taken her wisdom and shaped it into a Mono Bill of Rights. Continue reading
Posted Jan 18, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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. The first example of a mono they will probably have is us and they will only be convinced of how successful we are by how successful we appear. Continue reading
Posted Jan 3, 2011 at Polyamorous People
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For monos in poly relationships the reality of sharing your love often hits very hard. Continue reading
Posted Dec 23, 2010 at Polyamorous People
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I think being in love with a poly person strengthens emotional independence because we can never truly relax on the comfy couch that is the monogamous relationship. Continue reading
Posted Dec 14, 2010 at Polyamorous People
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It’s Saturday morning and Z is upstairs in bed with his other love. Continue reading
Posted Nov 20, 2010 at Polyamorous People
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I think anyone in a loving intimate relationship should be aware of their own love languages and their partner's but I think it's even more important in a polyamorous relationship. Continue reading
Posted Nov 13, 2010 at Polyamorous People
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How can you feel genuine happiness for someone when what they are doing is causing you pain? Continue reading
Posted Nov 5, 2010 at Polyamorous People
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The only solution I can think of is to make friends with Sad and accept that this is how it’s going to be for a while. Resistance always seems to make things worse for me. Continue reading
Posted Oct 29, 2010 at Polyamorous People
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A polyamorous relationship is always going to be a more challenging relationship to keep in balance because if it was a garden it would be a flower garden trying to grow amongst large established trees. Continue reading
Posted Oct 23, 2010 at Polyamorous People
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I could easily fall prey too - acceptance of polyamory is enough. It isn’t, I still have to keep investing just as I would in any relationship that I want to grow beautifully. Continue reading
Posted Oct 15, 2010 at Polyamorous People
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polyamorous relationships are like mono relationships on steroids. Continue reading
Posted Oct 7, 2010 at Polyamorous People