Some claim that it's her fault to have gone to find solace in satmar, now she has to eat it. However, it's not different from all the people who join regular cults. They are vulnerable when they join and are easily overtaken by some nice aspects found inside. We do need to help them leave when they get disillusioned. We sure shouldn't side with the cult who will try to hold on to the person or to the children. A secular judge should be smart enough to know that sects like satmar are detrimental to civil society and to any children in it. The judge should always give custody to the leaving parent for the good of the children. From a cult-insider.