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Narcissistic Personality Disordered people gaslight their love ones and those closest to them in attempts to meet their own narcissistic supply needs. Gaslighting is a method of psychological abuse and it is very confusing and wounding. All-too-often, so many who have an NPD parent or partner do not recognize the... Continue reading
Posted Dec 28, 2015 at NPD Family
Are you a person with Borderline Personality Disorder, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, or loved one of someone with BPD or NPD, a Codependent and you feel like a victim? Are you a victim? Feeling like a victim equals suffering. So many people don't ever really become aware enough of how they can empower themselves or be helped to empower themselves to stop being a willing participant in their own victimization or self-victimization. We can all be a victim of something that happened to us, yes, but what about after that? Do you keep that mindset and stay stuck in that role? Remaining a victim is a choice. You need to become aware that you can choose differently and find healing and recovery. Pain is inevitable in life but suffering is a choice. Continue reading
Posted Dec 28, 2015 at NPD Family
Healing from the abuse of someone in your life with Borderline Personality Disorder and/or Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a very painful process. Not as painful as being abused is, however. It is a necessary though so that your mental and physical health is not diminished and negatively effected. So many loved ones or family members of those with BPD and/or NPD are in so much pain as the result of the level and frequency of abuse they are on the receiving end of from these personality disordered people in their lives. Continue reading
Posted Dec 28, 2015 at NPD Family
A Narcissistic Family is identified in a new way for Mental Health Professionals in a book written by Mental Health Professionals. This is so important because when in the trenches with clients with Narcissistic Personality Disorder or several NPD traits, behind closed doors, we still grapple to truly get beyond the narcissistic defense mechanisms that leave these clients with wide gaping blind spots that are the extreme defenses against the very insight and self-awareness that cannot be reached without getting in touch with a great deal of pain. Continue reading
Posted Dec 28, 2015 at NPD Family
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Narcissistic abuse is devastating. Any and all of it. Narcissists leave untold damage to be healed and dealt with by those they claim to "love". Narcissists have no idea what healthy love is. For many women the first Narcissistic Personality Disordered misogynist they fall prey to is their father. Continue reading
Posted Dec 28, 2015 at NPD Family
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