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Barbara Rose
Milwaukee, WI
A mom finds happiness and a way around her own limitations through helping her autistic daughter recover.
Interests: meeting and getting to know and love people; relentless self-improvement; fitness: jogging, jump rope, weights, sit-ups, rowing, basketball; hip-hop & rap music; option institute / son-rise program philosophy/techniques of self-studentship and learning to be happier
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I'm putting more effort into Anna's Son-Rise Program and mixing it with Anat Baniel Method® techniques, and the possibility of her recovering fully in the end makes documenting our struggles and extremely long road, lest people see her acting normally and say she "grew out of it" or worse yet, was never autistic. That's what happened to the Kaufmans, who started the Son-Rise Program: their son recovered fully back before there were home video cameras widely available, and some people until this day accuse them of lying that he was ever autistic. I am going to post more often to show how much work and facets go into working with an autistic person at a high level using Son-Rise and ABM, so here you go. VIDEO OF PART OF TODAY'S SESSION Demonstrating of blending of Anat Baniel Method® and Son-Rise® Programs, including the following observable in this video: -Happy nonjudgmental,... Continue reading
Posted 2 days ago at Curing Autism Together
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Anna keeps talking about certain events - fictitious or real - over and over all day for days, composing 80% of what she spontaneously talks about, and is on her mind that day; everything else is in response to something I - or our other Son-Rise® Program participants - said on another topic. This is a higher functioning autistic trait - they call it "obsession" or "compulsion" - it's like having a song tune stuck in your head all day and so strongly if effectively blocks out all other topics and learning. Anat Baniel Method helps by giving the child direct physical experiences that have new variations built in and feel great and go directly to the brain to stimulate change, but in the mean time, Son-Rise also does wonders for it, only directly cognitively. Anna's most recent haircut April 2017. I recognized I wanted to open up my daughter's... Continue reading
Posted Apr 12, 2017 at Curing Autism Together
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Something like 95% of what my daughter says (it's probably higher, I'm just leaving room for occasional unusual comment, and perhaps a little bit of denial) are the same topics, same sentence construction, and in most cases, the same exact sentences or questions nearly word-for-word with perhaps one word swapped out. She'll ask how I feel that she's gotten (or going to get) a certain toy, or what I think of something that happened in a video, or about how she found various videos and shows online. A small subset of that 95%, maybe 20% of that, may be about something she did other than buying toys or watching a show, but that is almost without exception more than 2 years ago, any and all of which we have talked over - the exact sentences - dozens, hundreds, even thousands of times, just like the other sentences. It's just a... Continue reading
Posted Feb 13, 2017 at Curing Autism Together
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2016-11-07 CREATING CUSTOM CURRICULUM FOR KIDS WITH AUTISM AND ADD/ADHD, “ON THE FLY” I created "Big Book(s) of Learning" from a thick spiral notebook, where I capture my child’s focus whenever it lands and create an activity to extend that area of interest through an activity. Autistic kids and those with ADD/ADHD (all autistic kids have, both) have trouble controlling their intentional focus, and many time more difficulty doing so when someone else is directing them, so whenever their interest is on a topic it’s extra valuable to go with that topic, which is exactly what we do in the Son-Rise Program. It’s like jumping from lily pad to lily pad with your child, where each place you land you’re ready to start doing and learning something together from that vantage point. Anna's two current "Big Books of Knowledge", organized by tabs for each page. I created these book because... Continue reading
Posted Nov 9, 2016 at Curing Autism Together
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2 STAGE 4 DEVELOPMENTAL GOALS FALL! Friday Nov 4th, 2016 Anna completed something like 2 years of work inviting, prompting, questioning, etc. her indicate the missing where and when, which together indicate the context of any statement, like the setting of a play. She used to always say for example, "Can we get ice cream?" or "Can we get ice cream at Pick and Save?" with no "when words", so it was "no" if she meant now, and yes if she meant next time we were shopping, but it was never obvious to the listener absent the where and when what to answer. The context statements usually bundle the where and when - the when is next time, the where is at the store. She's now indicating both most of the time - up at the 85% of the time it would be appropriate for normal speakers. This means she's... Continue reading
Posted Nov 6, 2016 at Curing Autism Together
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People who are learning how to invite and extend conversations with autistic kids through adding variety to speech. Celebrating (cheering, showing appreciation, reacting positively) is the more important, effective and fundamental way to extend conversations, but the adding variety angle is the very next thing to do once you have the child taking an interest in you because of the celebrating. So here is stuff to brainstorm about that will help you work with your child to entice more speech and interaction. Throwback photo of Anna from 2013 with of our long-standing participants, S.M., who has once moved on (sniff!) (1) Make a list of everything your child most talks about - you know, all the things your child says or talks about over and over again). Break down that conversation into its component parts. Write 3 things that each thing that relate to any or all of the component... Continue reading
Posted Nov 4, 2016 at Curing Autism Together
Math can be the source of refreshing challenges and variety. This is this morning's session, where I chose to use dot-to-dots to teach counting by 5's while exercising all our interactive-gym type of activities. The bottom line for my team watching this is that you're always teaching something, whether it's turn-taking or math, to keep it interesting and spur growth through challenge and celebration. And you have to think on your feet and figure things out!! Notice all program principles weave together to invite and sustain quality interactions throughout. I am using the "adding variety" component of the Son-Rise® Program to encourage my daughter to learn math concepts like counting by "5s" using an adult-level-complexity dot-to-dot puzzle book (David Kalvitis). Notice the following elements in the interaction: Loving, accepting, nonjudgmental and happy attitude, expressed as the "3 e's" (energy, excitement and enthusiasm), whether expressed loudly or quietly, showing focus and... Continue reading
Posted Apr 30, 2016 at Curing Autism Together
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My photo & video tribute to Prince - out of respect and love Thank you for the fun, the inspiration, and the mystery of somehow bringing heaven to earth in the form of music. You had your own channel, so original. I so enjoyed your music. Purple Rain live video embedded below: Prince at his peak during the Purple Rain phenomenon: We must pick up the mantle; someone new now must inspire us. Perhaps it is you, or me. Most definitely gone too soon. Bye Prince Continue reading
Posted Apr 22, 2016 at Curing Autism Together
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Changes since I've started incorporating ABM (Anat Baniel Method) with my Son-Rise Program - and in myself - include: I'm having the urge to apply the super-slow, super-gentle used in ABM to touching my daughter's arm or hand when she's trying to formulate a complex sentence - something she struggles with and is learning - and find it encourages her to go slower, and for both of us to be more mentally present, and she more often to add the words she might ordinarily leave out if she were racing quickly through a phrase she often says with both of us being less-than-fully present;\ Anna is really into cooking! I'm more willing and able to create and allow variations (without judgment!) knowing that variations are what the brain needs to work with as raw materials and to stimulate thought to choose and refine any skill or knowledge. For example: my... Continue reading
Posted Mar 31, 2016 at Curing Autism Together
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I just came back from the Anat Baniel Method ("ABM") Professional Training Program Segment 1 in Las Vegas, Nevada and can already feel the benefits of the ABM neuromovement training enhancing our Son-Rise® Program. I was excited to play with the synergy between the methods. Two of my best friends I met at the Option Institute® are also Certified Option Process® Mentors (like me!), but their children have fully recovered already using Son-Rise plus ABM faster than my child is recovering using the Son-Rise Program alone. I wondered if it might increase my daughter's speed of recovery, and my parents generously offered to fund my attending the training which makes it possible. At my hotel in Las Vegas I'm so excited about what we learned! It answered so many questions I have always had about how I operate and why I do what I do, and how to approach learning... Continue reading
Posted Mar 23, 2016 at Curing Autism Together
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Re: Anna's recovery My daughter Anna LOVES cuddling by leaning in to get a hug, and putting her face against my head and neck area and making faces she wants me to copy (and shows great delight when I do). It's the thing she MOST likes to do with me. This "cuddle & faces game" is a "repetitive game", meaning it's highly similar from iteration to iteration. The rules such are something like: "she leans in, I hug; she makes a face, I join". I'm showing how you'd keep the game fun, encourage your child throughout, but create and seize as many opportunities to teach language, the fun of variety, and other content. It's like teaching language arts or social skills are like the Christmas tree - the work-horse, the most important and biggest factor - and everything else we do and learn are like the lights and ornaments, draped... Continue reading
Posted Dec 28, 2015 at Curing Autism Together
Check out this fun commercial I made!! (You may recognize one of the actors formerly employed by the Son-Rise Program/ Option Institute!) I took time out from my Son-Rise® Program to compete in hopes of making a $1,000,000 (if I win). Please rate it 5 stars and share on Facebook, twitter and google circles, it affects the judges votes! (They don't let us vote for a winner til January BTW, I'll repost then to ask for your vote). This could help me and my daughter's program soooo much! It's the most fun I've had trying to raise money for our daughter's program! They've been doing this for several years but I just found out 4 weeks ago, it's amazing I was able to create and submit it in that time. Two runners up get $100k each and over 40 others just behind them all get $2k. You can view and... Continue reading
Posted Nov 17, 2015 at Curing Autism Together
See this youtube video, click on this embedded video (see notes below): We join autistic kids: 1- To demonstrate love and acceptance of a child while they are not wanting to interact, in a way that is soothing, supportive, sets the stage for greater desire of the child to interact... Continue reading
Posted Oct 31, 2015 at Autism Coaches
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Welcome!! Me and my daughter, mid 2015 I have run a Son-Rise® program to help my daughter recover from autism, patterned after the Son-Rise Program, since the summer of 2007 (that's something like 8 years). She has made dramatic progress and now feels and acts at least as normal as... Continue reading
Posted Oct 31, 2015 at Autism Coaches
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Two days ago I was thrown off my normal morning routine when I figured out the shocking news that our beloved, super helpful, super innovative autism doctor - Dr Jeff Bradstreet - was found in a small river in Florida by a fisherman, either from suicide, or per his family, murdered. I was trying to refill Anna and my thyroid prescriptions, and was a excited to set up an appointment with Dr. Bradstreet, the leading autism doctor in the US and in the world - to share about my protocol that cured Anna's Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD) / Ulcerative Colitis (UC). I realized a few weeks ago that he had been alongside us throughout, helped us diagnose her inflammation in a brilliant, non-invasive poop test, then control it successfully for several years with VSL#3, a safe over the counter (OTC) probiotic. I was so looking forward to sharing the happy... Continue reading
Posted Sep 6, 2015 at Curing Autism Together
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Enjoying my new leaner body (lost 20 pounds since last October - 8 months) using a combination of Herbalife crazy-delicious shakes, the Daniel Diet, more fitness, and lots of dialogues to tweak what I eat and do and figure out why I go off - then fix it. BTW the Daniel diet is is pretty much eliminating trigger foods that cause lab rats to get fat - added sugars, flours, and MSG, and asking God to help. I knew when I read about when feeding rats that stuff they went couldn't stop eating and lost all ability to sense they were full, I knew that was my exact problem, just like I knew when I read about Asperger's like 8 years ago and knew that was me, too. What's left in my diet is very lean and clean which is how my body is looking increasingly. Yeah! 20-30 pounds to... Continue reading
Posted Aug 7, 2015 at Curing Autism Together
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My daughter's inflammatory bowel disease ("IBD") onset fall 2002 (within 1-3 months of getting her first vaccines at around 1 year old) and December 2014 she had her last bout of inflammation, at around 13.5 years old, 12 years later. I cured her, plain and simple. It's now about 5 months later and there is absolutely NO sign of inflammation - no leaking poop in a pull-up, no leg crossing, no painful faces and lying down to manage the pain, etc. I'll be posting the mini book on Amazon and revising this copy to reflect the title and link later this month. Bookmark this page and check back! I created this protocol during Dec 2014 after multiple rounds of really severe inflammation paralyzed our Son-Rise program and started swallowing up my daughter's and my days. Does this sound like you or your child? Most of those days was spent with... Continue reading
Posted Apr 22, 2015 at Curing Autism Together
Partway through discussing with my daughter why she's upset, she reveals a caregiver was talking on her phone and falling asleep during her session time. I am using the Option Process® Dialogue techniques with her to figure out what is going on and why she's upset. I'm an Option Process® Mentor, and use these services with regular people (and autistic people alike as you see) to help them move through difficult issues and "get unstuck". Here she is stuck on an upsetting thought of being in her view, ordered to stay with someone who was neglecting her. I morph the discussion into a fun activity of texting or calling me when people fall asleep, use their phone, the gas is left on the kitchen, there is someone at the door etc. which should all trigger her contacting me right away. This helps her prepare for the next time, and understand... Continue reading
Posted Apr 1, 2015 at Curing Autism Together
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My increasingly high-functioning autistic daughter is tantrumming here and I'm helping her/us resolve back to back to happy, loving, constructive feelings/behavior using the principles and mental tools of the Option Process®, from an unshakably comfortable and loving perspective (in me). The Son-Rise program is based on the Option Process philosophy and the more my autistic daughter recovers, the more her issues such as this tantrum are best dealt with through discussion of what's going on and possible alternative beliefs and reactions. Video of Anna tantrumming and how I dealt with it. (Those of you getting feed burner notifications, you'll need to click on the link to see the video on youtube.) The most advanced Son-Rise play therapy technique (based on my "Participant Progress Pyramid" system to train my Son-Rise program participants), is coaching the autistic person how to use Option Process thinking to be more effective in changing the world... Continue reading
Posted Feb 23, 2015 at Curing Autism Together
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THE TIPPING POINT (BETWEEN BEING AUTISTIC AND NORMAL) HAS ARRIVED! After years of "crawling out of a hole", I am ready to see myself as normal, at least the majority of the time, and that picture was my first heads up that I've reached some critical passage point. After months of intermittent but still relentless focus on the aesthetic side of my - my appearance - I'm starting to see myself how I wanted be be in the past, but I always used to see something - that thing - that was wrong with me in the mirror. I've been developing my taste in jewelry (all "fashion" jewelry - the real stuff is to expensive and frankly kind of monotonous), dresses, athletic and casual Tshirts, dress shoes, skorts, skirts, my hair color/style/conditioning, nail polish color preference, eyebrow shaping (I do it myself with this tiny manual razor I get online).... Continue reading
Posted Oct 19, 2014 at Curing Autism Together
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Today my daughter took out a Blue's Clues electronic book that she had rarely touched for a months and was so delighed playing with it, like she was when she was a toddler. I had to take a picture. One thing that's beautiful about autistic people is their ability to enjoy over and over things they love, and tire of them much more slowly than normal people. Anna's utter delight at asking the same question to me she asked 10 or 15 times that day already, or to re-have the conversation about the same issue, with such love and savoring of it, is really neat. She waits for my similar - not the same - answers (since I'm trying to introduce variety for her), with such a big smile on her face and such anticipation for the lines she loves that I might say, always crafted and delivered playful and... Continue reading
Posted Jun 17, 2014 at Curing Autism Together
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As I was returning from Mentor Certification (4 weeks this January 2014) I saw one of the most inspirational things I've ever seen: a lamppost that had been nearly destroyed by the impact of an accident with a vehicle (no longer at the scene), that shone brightly and if anything more brightly and dramatically than those around with no such damage. Unlike the others, the bent lamppost shone its light out through the snow around it and up from the ground, making the its light radiate from a much larger area and as if exploding from a hole in the earth. It inspires me about my own pre-and post-autism experiences, and helps give me hope to overcome the formidable challenges of creating and recreating my life in my late 40's when everyone believes the die is cast and the game is over, and there is little help in that reconstruction... Continue reading
Posted May 5, 2014 at Curing Autism Together
I'm going to figure out what my perfect diet is (I think I already know), and why I keep going off of it. You see, I've eventually defeated every diet I've ever gone on, even the ones that were working, and til now I've never explored the mystery of why.... Continue reading
Posted May 3, 2014 at The Dialogue Diet
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When I think about autistic women who are reasonably successful in their careers I think of Temple Grandin and scientific /engineering women I've met who might fall into that camp, and their fashion is nonexistent and frankly kind of androgynous. It's all about comfort, which I totally understand as an adult recovering from Asperger's Syndrome. That's all I used to care about. Fashion was confusing because I didn't want people to look at me - I was uncomfortable enough with them not looking or focusing on me already. Also, as other autistic people, physically irritating, inflexible or chafing clothing absolutely distracts me and seems crazy to wear. This was part of the disconnect I used to feel around others - the stuff other women embraced seemed like lunatic costume wear. But no more!!! I know get the inspiring value and market value of glamor with other people and professionally and... Continue reading
Posted May 1, 2014 at Curing Autism Together
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Someone on Facebook posted a picture of this cat and asked what you'd name it. This was my answer: "I'd call her 'Me'. I have lived half a life autistic (it looked and felt really different) and this second half post-autism I hope will be 'like black and white'. This cat inspires me to have the two parts merge to work together." I would enjoy a chimera pet because it feels "like me". I am that cat. ---------- I'm excited that George Clooney has chosen to marry someone who looks at least a little like me (Amal Alamuddin). It will help counter the relative absence of people in tabloids and on-screen who do. People in the "positive/popular US" media - news, stars on screen, etc - are almost always black, white (European origin), hispanic, asian, or indian. In contrast, all those pictures of suspected terrorists and people in foreign countries... Continue reading
Posted May 1, 2014 at Curing Autism Together