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bawilson444
Longmont, CO
I counsel in Longmont, Colorado and we host marriage intensives in the nearby Rocky Mountains
Interests: Author of Betrayed and Betrayer: Rescuing your marriage after the affair. Triathlon, reading, writing, food, granddaughter, golf
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Our 'relationships' that harm our marriage come in many shapes and forms. It's not always another person. Sometimes it's work, weed, porn, alcohol, church, video games and on and on. It can be anything we use as a crutch to... Continue reading
Posted May 9, 2018 at Marriages Restored
Hey Confused. Thanks for stopping by. Let us know if we can help in any way.
Toggle Commented May 7, 2018 on Contact Us at Marriages Restored
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October 19-20th in conjunction with Calvary Church in Longmont, CO we will be leading a marriage conference. This marriage conference is a great investment of time for any couple. There is a myth that a couple needs to be struggling... Continue reading
Posted May 7, 2018 at Marriages Restored
Came across one of my favorite posts. It has been a wild ride, Ann Wilson. It has been a dizzying, beautiful, heals over head, wild ride. My Life Would Suck Without You 'Cause we belong together now yeah Forever united... Continue reading
Posted Apr 26, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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In purging and sorting on my computer I came across this quiz from Shirley Glass on Emotional Affairs. How does one know that their friendship is crossing lines into unhealthiness and becoming a threat to the marriage? Check out these... Continue reading
Posted Apr 11, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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I really loved Richard Rohr's devotion this morning. The process he describes parallels healthy recovery for marriages dealing with infidelity or another crisis. I guess human growth is human growth. He speaks of Order-Disorder-Reorder or I've heard it put Orientation-Disorientation-Reorientation.... Continue reading
Posted Mar 26, 2018 at Marriages Restored
Starting Day 2 of an intensive. A brave couple is walking through pain, risking their hearts with one another, and developing a new paradigm for their relationship and future. They are choosing each other. Prayers appreciated. Continue reading
Posted Mar 24, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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Betrayed and Betrayer: Rescuing Your Marriage After The Affair Less than 24 hours to purchase the Kindle version of Betrayed and Betrayer for $3.99. We did the hard work of recovery and enjoy moments like this. It is possible for... Continue reading
Posted Feb 16, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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Ann and I had the distinct privilege of talking with Nate Larkin and his host, Aaron Porter on the Pirate Monk Podcast. Nate is the author of Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling men to authenticate brotherhood. This is his... Continue reading
Posted Feb 15, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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On this beautiful Valentine’s morn, I am grateful to have come from a couple who loved one another so deeply. Momma had this pendant made from her and Daddy’s wedding rings and now I’m the lucky daughter who gets to... Continue reading
Posted Feb 14, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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Tomorrow is both Ash Wednesday and Valentine's Day. The message is clear, you aren't perfect and you are chosen and deeply loved. When you think about it from a spiritual perspective anyway. However, in your marriage, in the aftermath of... Continue reading
Posted Feb 13, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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Just started reading Love Sense by Dr. Sue Johnson, founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy or EFT. I look forward to attending EFT training later this spring. It aligns well with my existing style and philosophy in marriage counseling. Below is... Continue reading
Posted Feb 12, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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Ann's post this morning. This is kinda long, but Shame is such a BIG problem for so many of us, it is certainly worth the few minutes to read. "Shame is like Stockholm syndrome. It holds us hostage, and after... Continue reading
Posted Feb 8, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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For the past five days, I served at my eighth Restoring the Soul, Surfing for God Men's Intensive. Michael Cusick leads the weekend with teaching, spiritual direction and his unique way of ushering the men to the base of the... Continue reading
Posted Jan 29, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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If a couple suffering the consequences of betrayal can hang on to this truth shared today by Richard Rohr, I have great hope for the outcome of their marriage. Marriage has much to teach us about death and resurrection each... Continue reading
Posted Jan 24, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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Caring for my soul. 2 hours on the bike through rural Boulder and Larimer counties. The residents of Larimer gave me a fine welcome. ;) Continue reading
Posted Jan 18, 2018 at Marriages Restored
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I love receiving messages like this! It does my heart well to see the miraculous saving of a seemingly lost marriage. A marriage unraveling like a cheap sock suddenly transforms to strong and sturdy like the best merino wool. Are... Continue reading
Posted Jan 17, 2018 at Marriages Restored
Posted Jan 6, 2018 at Marriages Restored
This is a true story from years ago. Christmas is a hard time for many. The last evening class of the fall semester was over. I felt a warm sense of accomplishment and relief as I turned away from the... Continue reading
Posted Dec 14, 2017 at Marriages Restored
The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places. ~Ernest Hemingway Continue reading
Posted Dec 5, 2017 at Marriages Restored
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Now more than ever it is important to be intentional in your marriage. Technology, careers, and marrying later make connecting and doing life together more difficult than in previous times. Not marrying at all and infidelity are on the rise.... Continue reading
Posted Dec 1, 2017 at Marriages Restored
Betrayed and Betrayer: Rescuing Your Marriage After The Affair is now on sale in the UK for £1.99. This sale lasts from today all the way until Dec 1! Have some friends in a struggling marriage? Let them know about... Continue reading
Posted Nov 24, 2017 at Marriages Restored
Are you looking for a way out? Maybe you chronically get lost in pornography, could be every day or every so often. Perhaps you're in an affair or a series of affairs from which you just can't seem to break... Continue reading
Posted Nov 21, 2017 at Marriages Restored
That's hard C.J. Your perseverance is incredible! As challenging as it is I admire you ability to stay with it.
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Being Chosen is an important aspect of emotional intimacy in marriage. Check out this seen from Family Man with Nicholas Cage (Jack) and Tea Leoni (Kate). Former lovers, Jack is long lost in a selfish pursuit of money, power and... Continue reading
Posted Nov 13, 2017 at Marriages Restored