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Diva Carla
I teach mission-inspired women to become orgasmic and wealthy Divine Feminine leaders
Interests: Leading the way for the Divine Feminine to restore wholeness to the people of the planet. I do this through Art, Ceremony, Helping people make money while fulfilling their mission, philanthropy, sex education, teaching, writing, speaking.
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“Your relationship with yourself is your primary sexual relationship.” ~ Victor Warring On Live with Diva Carla this week I have a special treat. It is an interview I recorded last week with Victor Warring and Elena Zukalake. The Self Pleasure Project Listen online or download here: Victor and Elena are somatic (body based) intimacy, sexuality, and relationship educators. Their work begins with the body and is eros-inclusive, since the body is the first platform from which we learn to relate to other, and the body is inherently erotic and creative. This work addresses intimate, community, and ecological relationships,... Continue reading
Posted 3 days ago at Orgasmic Alchemy
Sue, perhaps your work in the world was to transmute rage on a bigger scale. On a personal level, when it still comes up, you are well equipped!
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Yes, Louise, we have a lot to learn about rage as women. Thanks for noticing that we run our rage through our wombs. The womb is also where we bring consciousness to rage, and process the transmutation.
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Taurus New Moon sends a message to women to pay close attention to the power of feminine rage. I write this as the Sun and Moon conjunct for the Taurus New Moon. The New Moon is conjunct Algol and Sedna. . Algol is a star in the constellation Medusa, an ancient Greek female monster. The Ancient Hebrews called this star Lilith, the disowned first wife of Adam. Both Medusa and Lilith represent disowned and thwarted feminine sexuality and power. They are both famous for their epic destructive rage. Just remember who wrote the stories of these feminine archetypes, and cast... Continue reading
Posted 7 days ago at Orgasmic Alchemy
This morning I took a walk in the foggy dew. I followed my nose to these delicate wild cherry blossoms. They have the sweet dark scent of cherry wood, and their whiteness carries the juicy redness of the wood and the fragrance. White flowers speak of purity and innocence, yet look at her center. The fragrant green pistil holds the mystery of the darkness, the infinitesimal seed and fruit. From the darkness comes food for the animals, and new cherry trees in generations to come. The proud stamens stand guard, offering their masculine energy and DNA, necessary greatness without which... Continue reading
Posted May 12, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Masturbation. How does the word make you feel? Does hearing or saying masturbate turn you on, or turn you off? What's buried that gets poked by the word “masturbate?” In the current edition of Live with Diva Carla, I talk about masturbation to focus attention on May as International Masturbation Month. Giving a month to masturbation seemed silly when I first heard about it. Tell the truth, I was embarrassed. I was harboring some residual shame about my own masturbation. The word masturbation triggered that shame. I don't like it. I feel a blush prickling on my cheeks when I... Continue reading
Posted May 11, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
The Dark Side of Giving or Letting Love In "You have to give before you can receive." People have been offering this advice in business, relationships and even spirituality since forever. I've noticed a dark side to this advice. Some people can't stop giving and let love in. It's not just women; I've noticed this dark side in men as well. I am not talking about the extreme of people who get off on self-sacrifice and martyrdom, or use giving to manipulate others. That isn't giving at all. I am talking about normal, loving people who are out of balance... Continue reading
Posted Apr 25, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
For my 60th birthday, I gave myself a photo shoot with Jade Beall, the world famous photographer of unphotoshopped beautiful bodies of mothers, babies, grandmothers (that's me), and couples. I got the photos about 3 weeks ago, and it is has been a meditation in self love to see myself through Jade's camera. After years of struggle around self-love, sexuality, worthiness, it feels amazing to recognize how far I have come. Jade is a healer with her vision and her camera, and like any other healer, she can only reveal the wholeness that is already present. When I look at... Continue reading
Posted Apr 25, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
The Goddess Vesta is invoked in Saturday's Lunar Eclipse. She is an archetype of two apparently contradictory energies: your spiritual calling and your inner erotic fire. These are only contradictory in modern times. Our ancestors knew that there is no separation between our erotic being and our spiritual being. The essence that Divine calls forth in each person, that hunger for union with spirit, that sense of purpose that inspires us to service, is fed by the inner flame. This flame is erotic, an expression of Desire. I call it Divine Longing. When this flame ignites and opens up space... Continue reading
Posted Apr 3, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
A Free Training in Sacred Pleasure I've talked to many women over the years, and you've told me that matters most to you in your sex life is a sacred intimate passionate connection with your beloved. Remember that your number one Beloved is yourself. The key to sacred, intimate, transcendent, and healing sex is knowing your own sacred spot. That's why I am doing Goddess Secrets of Sacred Spot Massage, A 30 Day Practice for Feminine Pleasure and Power. You are invited to participate! Sign up here. This free video training series will teach you in depth and detail how... Continue reading
Posted Apr 2, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
If you live in the western half of North America, rise early Saturday morning and look west. The full moon will be setting in total eclipse. This eclipse is the completion of the eclipse zone that began in the last degree of Pisces two weeks ago. The desires you named and claimed in that portal will take off – and demand your devoted action toward receiving them. At the same time as the eclipse the asteroid Vesta is conjunct Nessus in Pisces. Your life lessons, long-standing unhealed wounds, your sense of self-worth and belonging are calling for all your love... Continue reading
Posted Apr 2, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
There is a huge portal opening. Strap on your helmet and point your Kayak through the chute. Prepare to be changed. It is the New Moon and Solar Eclipse on the Aries Equinox. The last degree of Pisces the moon's shadow eclipses the Sun, and 12 hours later the Sun enters Aries and a new astrological year. Every eclipse is a portal, and the challenging energy before and after can feel like cosmic rapids. Every month, the new moon is a time of intention setting and visioning. When a new moon makes a solar eclipse, the intention setting takes on... Continue reading
Posted Mar 19, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Are you feeling bold and feisty like I am? I am pretty darned excited! I strapped on my snowshoes and went outside in the glorious sunshine today to share my excitement with you in this 2 minute video Click picture to view I am delighted for the women who've been working with me for the past few months. Their breakthroughs have been phenomenal, and we are all celebrating together. Women have experienced their first orgasm. They've had their first multiple orgasms! They've discovered their g-spot. They've found their voice in asking for what they want in bed. They've deepened their... Continue reading
Posted Mar 11, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Last week in Tucson, I celebrated the passage of 60 years of life in this body temple by having a photo shoot with Jade Beall, the creatrix of A Beautiful Body Project. Together we co-created a body of art celebrating the sensuality and vitality of a courageous, gorgeous crone -- ME! As Jade set up her cameras, I went out for my first costume change. I returned to see this sign at eye level on the studio door: I burst into tears. For all my years of spiritual and sexual healing work, there is still a child in me who... Continue reading
Posted Mar 8, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Have your discovered the Paradise of your own body? Your body is made for pleasure. What if you approached sex with your lover or with yourself as if you were enjoying a vacation on an exquisite sensual island? Imagine this: 1. Plan: Yes! planning for sex is sexy! Set a time, plan and collect your sensual accessories, think about what you want to do, feel, be. 2. Anticipate: Start enjoying your sexual experience before you even get there through fantasy and anticipation. 3. Let the world go away: You are on an erotic vacation in your own body. Put a... Continue reading
Posted Feb 20, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
It is New Moon today, and I want you to have a heads up so you can use this magical energy to your benefit. Today at 6:47 pm eastern time, the Sun and Moon make their exact conjunction in the last degree of Aquarius, and together cross over into Pisces two minutes later. The Moon and Sun cross the cusp to meet centaur planet Nessus in the first degree of Pisces. This combined energy is supportive of healing your legacy. There is a traditional ritual to declare your intentions at the New Moon and celebrate their manifestation at the Full... Continue reading
Posted Feb 16, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Posted Feb 14, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Last week Dan Savage, of Savage Love, published a letter from a woman who touched my heart, because her story was a lot like mine. “We were raised to wait for sex till we got married—this was back in the early '80s—and we did. Our wedding night was pretty disappointing since neither of us knew what we were doing. He got off, but I didn't. We both assumed that there was something wrong with me, because he didn't have any problem coming, right?” She's writing to Dan 30 years later, because after 20 years of counseling and reading books, she'd... Continue reading
Posted Feb 12, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
TONIGHT! January 19 at 8 pm eastern, I'll be interviewed on The Pleasure Zone with Milica Jelenic. We'll be talking about How women over 50 can have the best sex of their lives. It's tied in to my upcoming free... Continue reading
Posted Jan 19, 2015 at Touching Art
My humanity is bound up in yours, for we can only be human together.~Desmond Tutu IN HONOR of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Today the United States celebrates the first national holiday of the year, the day-off that honors the birthday of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. I want to share two memories associated with Dr. King, one heavy and one delightful. Darkness falls... Late one afternoon in 1968, I was a teenage girl daydreaming and listening to the Beatles on the radio. It was getting dark, almost suppertime on the farm in Tennessee where I grew up. The music... Continue reading
Posted Jan 19, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Setting a sex goal implies that the next step is to make a plan and get to work achieving it. Goddess, that does not feel sexy at all! How can you make it sexy? 1. Feel the sexy inside yourself. Get into fantasy about how it will feel to have this sexual experience you want. Tap into the desire. Merge your mind and body in juicy, dreamy, erotic fantasy. 2.: Gather up your courage and ask for what you want. If it is a solo experience, gather your accessories, and schedule the time. If it takes the collaboration of one... Continue reading
Posted Jan 9, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
When you choose a specific goal for your sex life, and know why you want it, then it is time to take the next step. You have a little bit more thinking to do. 1. Take stock of your current situation. Is your goal a big leap from where you are now? 2. If yes, what are some next step goals that will get you closer to your big goal? 3. What support do you need to meet your sex life goals? ie, information, a mentor, a partner, new skills, therapy, practice, a community 4. Are you willing to invest... Continue reading
Posted Jan 7, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Today I decided on some specific goals for my sex life for 2015. This is a new edge for me. I invite you to do the same thing. How do you make a goal for your sex life? Let's start by applying the same principles that go into setting any goal. Remember that by definition, a goal is specific, measurable, and has a "by when" date. It also needs to blend feeling doable, and feeling a stretch. You don't have to know HOW when you make the goal. You do have to know WHY it is important to you. With... Continue reading
Posted Jan 7, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
The Universal Laws around manifesting say that you have to 1. Know what you want 2. Know why you want it 3. Visualize and feel the having of this desire I made some goals and a simple plan. I found that all I could visualize was a balance sheet saying I had made the money and done what I said I would do. Where was the juice? The sacred feminine way says celebrate your desire/goal from the beginning. That's when I realized I have to build in my celebration from the beginning. Include not just projects and responsibilities, but pleasure,... Continue reading
Posted Jan 6, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy