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Diva Carla
I teach mission-inspired women to become orgasmic and wealthy Divine Feminine leaders
Interests: Leading the way for the Divine Feminine to restore wholeness to the people of the planet. I do this through Art, Ceremony, Helping people make money while fulfilling their mission, philanthropy, sex education, teaching, writing, speaking.
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Have your discovered the Paradise of your own body? Your body is made for pleasure. What if you approached sex with your lover or with yourself as if you were enjoying a vacation on an exquisite sensual island? Imagine this: 1. Plan: Yes! planning for sex is sexy! Set a time, plan and collect your sensual accessories, think about what you want to do, feel, be. 2. Anticipate: Start enjoying your sexual experience before you even get there through fantasy and anticipation. 3. Let the world go away: You are on an erotic vacation in your own body. Put a... Continue reading
Posted Feb 20, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
It is New Moon today, and I want you to have a heads up so you can use this magical energy to your benefit. Today at 6:47 pm eastern time, the Sun and Moon make their exact conjunction in the last degree of Aquarius, and together cross over into Pisces two minutes later. The Moon and Sun cross the cusp to meet centaur planet Nessus in the first degree of Pisces. This combined energy is supportive of healing your legacy. There is a traditional ritual to declare your intentions at the New Moon and celebrate their manifestation at the Full... Continue reading
Posted Feb 16, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Posted Feb 14, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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Last week Dan Savage, of Savage Love, published a letter from a woman who touched my heart, because her story was a lot like mine. “We were raised to wait for sex till we got married—this was back in the early '80s—and we did. Our wedding night was pretty disappointing since neither of us knew what we were doing. He got off, but I didn't. We both assumed that there was something wrong with me, because he didn't have any problem coming, right?” She's writing to Dan 30 years later, because after 20 years of counseling and reading books, she'd... Continue reading
Posted Feb 12, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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TONIGHT! January 19 at 8 pm eastern, I'll be interviewed on The Pleasure Zone with Milica Jelenic. We'll be talking about How women over 50 can have the best sex of their lives. It's tied in to my upcoming free... Continue reading
Posted Jan 19, 2015 at Touching Art
My humanity is bound up in yours, for we can only be human together.~Desmond Tutu IN HONOR of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Today the United States celebrates the first national holiday of the year, the day-off that honors the birthday of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. I want to share two memories associated with Dr. King, one heavy and one delightful. Darkness falls... Late one afternoon in 1968, I was a teenage girl daydreaming and listening to the Beatles on the radio. It was getting dark, almost suppertime on the farm in Tennessee where I grew up. The music... Continue reading
Posted Jan 19, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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Setting a sex goal implies that the next step is to make a plan and get to work achieving it. Goddess, that does not feel sexy at all! How can you make it sexy? 1. Feel the sexy inside yourself. Get into fantasy about how it will feel to have this sexual experience you want. Tap into the desire. Merge your mind and body in juicy, dreamy, erotic fantasy. 2.: Gather up your courage and ask for what you want. If it is a solo experience, gather your accessories, and schedule the time. If it takes the collaboration of one... Continue reading
Posted Jan 9, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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When you choose a specific goal for your sex life, and know why you want it, then it is time to take the next step. You have a little bit more thinking to do. 1. Take stock of your current situation. Is your goal a big leap from where you are now? 2. If yes, what are some next step goals that will get you closer to your big goal? 3. What support do you need to meet your sex life goals? ie, information, a mentor, a partner, new skills, therapy, practice, a community 4. Are you willing to invest... Continue reading
Posted Jan 7, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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Today I decided on some specific goals for my sex life for 2015. This is a new edge for me. I invite you to do the same thing. How do you make a goal for your sex life? Let's start by applying the same principles that go into setting any goal. Remember that by definition, a goal is specific, measurable, and has a "by when" date. It also needs to blend feeling doable, and feeling a stretch. You don't have to know HOW when you make the goal. You do have to know WHY it is important to you. With... Continue reading
Posted Jan 7, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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The Universal Laws around manifesting say that you have to 1. Know what you want 2. Know why you want it 3. Visualize and feel the having of this desire I made some goals and a simple plan. I found that all I could visualize was a balance sheet saying I had made the money and done what I said I would do. Where was the juice? The sacred feminine way says celebrate your desire/goal from the beginning. That's when I realized I have to build in my celebration from the beginning. Include not just projects and responsibilities, but pleasure,... Continue reading
Posted Jan 6, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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Today the full moon is at home in Cancer. This is traditionally called the Wolf Moon and it is a magical moon to open the New Year, a moon to howl your YES to the Universe! This full moon derives her special power from being opposite the Sun and Pluto in Capricorn (transformation) and square Uranus in Aries (surprise gifts). Astrologer Eric Linter writes: “The potential for growth is off the charts exciting, but be prepared to go beyond your comfort zone.” That's why transformation can feel like bad news, and be very uncomfortable, even painful. This Full Moon activates... Continue reading
Posted Jan 5, 2015 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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I've learned learned a lot about gratitude since the Sagittarius New Moon. I learned a way to amplify gratitude with erotic energy, which I shared in last week's letter. You can read about Planting Seeds of Gratitude here. Now Spirit is revealing a new level of gratitude mastery: how to say Yes, Thank You! when the Universe starts sending you what you asked for! Right after New Moon, blessings I have been praying for started dropping in my lap, knocking on my door, and calling me on the phone. A new lover, extraordinary new clients, gifts of the Spirit! I... Continue reading
Posted Dec 14, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Spirit is revealing a new level of gratitude mastery: how to say Yes, Thank You! when the Universe starts sending you what you asked for! Continue reading
Posted Dec 13, 2014 at Touching Art
Last weekend I danced a vision quest ceremony, The Long Dance. I danced on my land in Maine around a beautiful five trunk ash tree that holds powerful masculine presence. I was supported in my dance by the Dance Chiefs in Tennessee who were leading the Long Dance in the Peace Chamber there. I could not travel, so I made my love offering, my banner, and called two local sisters to support me with fire tending and drumming. I danced outdoors in the rain and snow through the night, diving into the past, present and future. This dance was a... Continue reading
Posted Dec 13, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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As a conscious awakening woman or man, you know that gratitude is not just a once a year thing. Gratitude, like sex, is an infinitely giving resource. Yet many people do gratitude the way they make love: by rote, habit, or on the surface. Successful happy people have gratitude mastery. You know how to activate it every day, moment by moment, especially when things fall apart. Gratitude has an intimate connection with erotic energy. While gratitude flows from your heart, desire and creation power generate in your belly and genitals. When feelings of Desire rise to flow as Gratitude from... Continue reading
Posted Dec 3, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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Saturn has left the building... of 21 degrees Scorpio, that is. Well not quite. At 23 degrees, the door would hit him in the ass if I was fool enough to slam it! Still I can't help but do a little happy dance to acknowledge that my year of 2nd Saturn Return is coming to completion. Then he runs me right into an eclipse. Tomorrow, the Scorpio New Moon eclipses the Sun at 1 degree Scorpio. Sun, Moon, and Venus are all lined up to cross into Scorpio at the same time. Venus is at her halfway point in her... Continue reading
Posted Oct 22, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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I am Diva Carla. A lot of people are starting to use Diva in their in their marketing, for good reason. The word is rooted in Latin for Divine. It means goddess. The word stands for a woman who is gifted, beautiful, and empowered, knows what she wants, and gets it. People think that Diva is part of my name, or a spiritual name, and that I am one of those Divas. I am, I'll own that! The truth is Diva is not my name. It is my title. It came to me and a group of sisters through my... Continue reading
Posted Oct 14, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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Halfway through the Accelerated Money Map Program, I have my money map numbers in four dimensions and I know what my goal is now. It is to move from my current income and experience to my minimum to be happy. Alexis defines happy as "having the resources and support you need to be of service." The difference between the two feels like a leap. It's a big gap, from about $4000 a month to almost $16000 a month. a fourfold leap in revenue, approximately evening distributed between personal life and business expense. It is reasonable. It is congruent with numbers... Continue reading
Posted Oct 14, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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I am in love with my wound that says desire is dangerous. Desire threatens my love for the enduring pain and dysfunction that I have identified with since my early childhood, and I have built some survival structures around this precognitive decision. I kind of knew I nursed my wounds, but did not yet own how passionately I adored them, how I much I depend on them, and how much a part of my very existence they are. This week I called someone else out on loving their wounds, and caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror. My ego... Continue reading
Posted Oct 11, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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One of the uncomfortable questions of my life is What do I want? I made a decision when I was 7 years old not to want anything, well, because I was trying to heal my parents. That decision was one of the most powerful I ever made, because it has trumped every other decision I have made throughout my life. I am not alone. Very few people know what they want. And even if they do know, speaking their desires out loud causes their voice to get stuck in their throat. We've had our desire preached out of us, and... Continue reading
Posted Oct 5, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
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I am getting naked and bold about my some of the persistent challenges in my life. I have done the ritual composting of shame, failure and regret, which I wrote about in my article on Saturn and Eclipses: Composting My Life Lessons. Monday I begin Alexis Neely's Accelerated Money Map Course, and I am paying for the course by writing about my experience publicly. The preliminary exercise is to begin thinking about the life – and lifestyle – I want to create, because that is the foundation of my personal money map. It is time to plant seeds in my... Continue reading
Posted Oct 4, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Here are the details for Tuesday's encore of the free class, Sacred Pleasure Secrets: What every woman needs to unleash her pleasure! Tuesday, October 7, at 2pm eastern time Some of the pleasure secrets I'll be covering: What makes sex sacred Breath, Movement and Energy The importance of knowing your body With practical information you can begin to use right away. Sign up here to join me live on Tuesday. Yes, I will record it for you if you can't be there at 2 pm, but you do have to register so I know you are interested and want the... Continue reading
Posted Oct 4, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
Can you feel the shifting energy, the veils shimmering as they thin? October in the North is a magic month as the earth prepares herself for the sacred festival at Samhain. This year the veils thin early, because of the eclipses. This coming full moon on October 8 brings a lunar eclipse followed two weeks later by a solar eclipse at new moon in scorpio. In my personal astrology Saturn will make its final pass over my natal Saturn at 21 degrees Scorpio during this eclipse cycle. This is my 2nd Saturn Return Last Hurrah! I intend to make the... Continue reading
Posted Oct 3, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy
It has been a tough week for my little town of Hope, Maine. The Pisces Full moon brought unexpected death to our community. On Monday, we buried Sarah, a young woman who grew up here, and had just launched her high school teaching career. On Tuesday, Dr. Jim Laurita was found dead in the elephant barn. We haven't yet recovered from the untimely loss of Forrest and Cameron, and now these losses. This is too much for small rural community to absorb. We can't absorb it. We grieve together. When the incomprehensible strikes, we crave meaning. Why did this happen?... Continue reading
Posted Sep 18, 2014 at Orgasmic Alchemy