You are right about the film. I'm pretty much your age and in good health, but it is transformational. In November I had a chance to see it as part of a philosophy department event at Sacramento State University in California. My new book What You Wish For also covers this ground in the form of a family saga, a family grappling with the death of loved ones, while not all agreeing on how the person's wishes should be respected. Anyone interested can learn more about it at http://tinyurl.com/bp-booksite