I think your long hair looks gorgeous... I also think it looks gorgeous in a bob too! I haven't seen any pics of you with it short though... perhaps I should do a search?! I think a woman is her most beautiful when she is at her most comfortable with herself, so bear that in mind when someone else tells youo to do something you don't want to do. I'm going for the big chop on friday 13th (Yes, I organised it on that date on purpose... for a laugh and the fact that I'm doing it for charity - Make a Wish Foundation). I haven't got as much silver as you though. Looking forward to it coming!! Great post from a fellow Silver Sister!