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Posted Jun 2, 2013 at Take a picture.. it will last longer
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Well fucking put. <3
Commented Feb 23, 2013 on An Explanation at Last Thing I Want To Do Is Hurt You
An Explanation
My dearest wife, JC, I don't know how you felt about me holding Daddy and Mommy Dearest's feet to the fire about Daddy's absence from this family week. Here is my explanation. When you told me that we needed to take you inpatient again, I dropped everything. I dropped everything so quickly you c...
Heck yeah! i would like to spend some quality cartoon-watching time ensuring you and JC are treated like you matter.
(you matter).
<3
Commented Feb 23, 2013 on Even Kids Shows Get It at Last Thing I Want To Do Is Hurt You
Even Kids Shows Get It
Go on Netflix. Pull up Transformers: Rescue Bots, season one, episode "Hotshots." Advance the show to about eight minutes, 30 seconds. And watch. "Maybe Blades just wants to be treated like he matters." How can her parents not get this simple concept? Asses. I've been learning this concept sinc...
Hello (again) world.
In an effort to reclaim my blog-life, here's a baby step-- a re-do of a meme/blog originally posted on MYSPACE (omg) on: Friday, November 04, 2005. Some of it is still true... Current mood: holier than thou No longer! Now i am simply 'anxious'. I wonder if that's a natural,... Continue reading
Posted Feb 23, 2013 at Take a picture.. it will last longer
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:):):) this is good news.
Commented Feb 19, 2013 on Day Twenty-Five - E-Mail Access at Last Thing I Want To Do Is Hurt You
Day Twenty-Five - E-Mail Access
JC has been granted an hour of email access per week now. This is a good sign that she's moving in the right direction. There are other good signs, like the fact that she is allowed to use the stairs now. Broadly, this is all good news. I don't really have any other thoughts on it, beyond the f...
You rock.
Commented Feb 5, 2013 on End Run Around Me? at Last Thing I Want To Do Is Hurt You
End Run Around Me?
Just off the phone with my mother. First, for her part, she said my kids are my concern, and what I say goes. It's my decision, and when JC is healthy enough to also have a say in things, then it's our decision. She offered no information. To whom? My mother-in-law. She spent 2 hours having...
Does the next post say 'i dedicated energy to people who don't deserve it'? b/c i don't want to read that post. I want to read the one that says 'i spent today nurturing myself and healing my family the best I could without focusing on someone else's drama'.
But if you can work the words 'choke on a cock' in there, I'd probably read whatever you posted.
HUGS AGAIN. <3 AGAIN.
Commented Feb 5, 2013 on Day Eleven - It Burns at Last Thing I Want To Do Is Hurt You
Day Eleven - It Burns
It appears that her entire family is in complete denial of the situation. Well, fuck them. If it matters, there is a logical reason behind my decision. It's fairly simple. Imagine that you are sick, and that there is one person directly responsible for that, and that you have refused visits an...
you're doing the right thing. this unit is YOUR family, no one else's. You and JC decide what is best for you, her, and the kids, and everyone else can ch*** on a c***. Focus inward. Don't waste your precious, limited energy on outside drama. Don't acknowledge it, don't waste a breath or a thought or a moment on it. Keep your eyes on the prize.
HUGS.
Commented Feb 5, 2013 on Day Eleven - It Burns at Last Thing I Want To Do Is Hurt You
Day Eleven - It Burns
It appears that her entire family is in complete denial of the situation. Well, fuck them. If it matters, there is a logical reason behind my decision. It's fairly simple. Imagine that you are sick, and that there is one person directly responsible for that, and that you have refused visits an...
Ouch. that stings. Here's an excerpt from a recent conversation with your beloved, which i find especially apropos right now:
Kat:
seriously all kids do that stuff. I hope you saved room in your bad place for the rest of humanity.
Your wife:
Not all kids drive their moms away on a regular basis
Kat:
oh, but they try. I sure did. the difference is yours left, and that is more about her than it is about you.
Upshot: Kids never mean what they say. We can't take anything they say seriously-- they are barely half a human.
Wish i could be there to help, and hug.
XX
Commented Feb 3, 2013 on Day Eight - Kids Done at Last Thing I Want To Do Is Hurt You
Day Eight - Kids Done
Today, all three kids decided they were done. L wasn't participating in soccer. T threw a fit because she forgot her coyote claw at home, and told me mommy wouldn't have forgotten it. And E. E and I had a fight about the condition of her hair. It was just all knots today. She and I have had thi...
<3<3<3<3<3 one for each of you.
Commented Jan 30, 2013 on Day Four - So Close at Last Thing I Want To Do Is Hurt You
Day Four - So Close
Back to school with the kids. Called her therapist, got some things off my chest, got some advice, got an update on her (here's a hint, so far, not going so hot). Got some work done, chatting with family friend who looked after things while I was in Savannah, went to group therapy. I even man...
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How to make an appointment with a therapist in...
How to make an appointment with a therapist in (anywhere in the world except Washington): 1) Call number 2) Answer questions 3) Set appointment How to make an appointment with a therapist in Washington: 1) Call number 2) Press 4 3) Press 3 4) leave message 5) miss return call... Continue reading
Posted Oct 5, 2012 at Take a picture.. it will last longer
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why do i hate christmas
For many years christmas has seemed like more trouble than it's worth, but the other day it finally occurred to me why i dread it so much. 1) because i grew up poor. For most of my early childhood there was no allowance. what money i had was what i... Continue reading
Posted Dec 25, 2010 at Take a picture.. it will last longer
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for some reason i feel a lot less shitty today....
for some reason i feel a lot less shitty today. the snow is gone and the blinds are open, and i got about 22 hours of sleep in the last 48 hours.. so maybe that's the solution. dental-drama induced weight loss at 8lbs. Headed to the gym, and thinking about... Continue reading
Posted Nov 26, 2010 at Take a picture.. it will last longer
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Best seat in the house.
Posted Nov 25, 2010 at Take a picture.. it will last longer
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Goodies.
I'll take the pat-down. As a woman in the US over 18, i've been going to the doctor every year for a number of years specifically to maintain my current sterility via a miracle drug i like to call 'birth control'. the trade off for this is that said doctor... Continue reading
Posted Nov 25, 2010 at Take a picture.. it will last longer
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this thanksgiving brought to you by stove-top
in whiny self-obsessed thanksgiving post tradition.. seven months ago i moved to seattle to have the shit kicked out of my lifestyle and everything *hold up. the quick compose box on typepad is actually LAGGY. retreating to a text window for unfettered composition** ...and everything i love is far away.... Continue reading
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