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James Flaherty
San Francisco, CA
Founder of New Ventures West, an Integral Coach training school headquartered in San Francisco
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A Manifesto - Beyond Coaching: What We Really Bring to the World
Posted yesterday at Integral Coaching Blog
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Unpacking Loneliness in this quarter's newsletter
Posted Oct 19, 2012 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Who Are You — Beyond the One Constructed to Survive?
Posted Aug 28, 2012 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Forever Jung
Posted May 17, 2012 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Keeping New Year’s Resolutions by Allowing Time for Change
Posted Dec 30, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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We can't live like this anymore
Posted Dec 1, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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London Calling
Posted Oct 7, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Spreading the Light: the Movement of Integral Coaching in Asia
Posted Sep 28, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Let's End Violence Now
Posted Aug 26, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Success is Only a Word
Posted Aug 15, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Is It Too Late?
Posted Jun 16, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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The Poetry of Norman Fischer
Posted May 11, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Positive Psychology Book Review
Posted May 9, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Extreme Empathy
Posted Apr 12, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Change in the world is more obvious just now
Posted Mar 25, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Empathy: The Feel of Resonance and its Implications
Posted Mar 22, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Friendship
Posted Mar 15, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Needing to Be Needed
Posted Mar 4, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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This Quarter's Book: "an Illuminating Educational Diamond Mine"
Posted Feb 18, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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A Poem for Today
Here is an excerpt of "The Gift" by Li-Young Lee, which we were moved to share in this Quarter's edition of Distinctions.You can read the whole poem by visiting the blog.
To pull the metal splinter from my palm
my father recited a story in a low voice.
I watched his lovely face and not the blade.
Before the story ended, he’d removed
the iron sliver I thought I’d die from....
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Posted Feb 16, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Sneak Peek of this Quarter's Practice: Examining the Recurring Loop
Posted Feb 14, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Steve March Presenting at SF Coaches Event
Posted Feb 4, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Learning or practice: which is greater?
Posted Feb 1, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Upcoming East Coast Appearances by James
Posted Jan 27, 2011 at Integral Coaching Blog
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Thank you all for your candid thoughtful responses. As you've written "busyness" can be given many interpretations and serve many functions. In work situations situations[ or whenever we are attempting to establish status of some sort ] it's a word that we apparently must use in order to have any kind of credibility in the environment. But don't despair ,I've recently taken up answering the question, "how are you?" with the answer " very happy and very spacious." which has opened up interesting conversations. Of course in some circumstances it doesn't really make any sense to say how we are in any true sense and we just mumble something to to keep the conversation going.
Still, words have meanings and we are forming an identity every time we open our mouth.
Our relationship to our level of activity has a lot to do with our developmental level, in my opinion. By this I mean the extent to which we are caught/pulled into concern about survival as distinct from being more fully in the world of meaning/blogging/contribution we will likely feel that we must be busy [ in order to get something done and thereby relieve our anxiety ] and present ourselves as busy in order to fit in and get some semblance of support and recognition. So what I'm saying is that it's probably more important to attend to our developmental level instead of trying to reduce how much we do.
What do you make of that?
My new quest—dissolving busyness
I am going to spend the next two or three years working on what I take to be the central issue facing most of my family, friends and clients. Way too many people, when I ask them how they are, say “I’m busy.” You’ve noticed this no doubt and perhaps you say it. At first I thought people were n...
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