I stumbled into a speed dating session, all Asians. Fit right in, except I wasn't wearing black leather, and my focus drifts towards Irishmen with fuzzy forearms. All straight, but fun to watch. Hot guys, some definitely curious, by the looks I was getting. Come back to SF, Brad. They just opened two new clubs in the Castro, Toadhall and Trigger. Cruising has hit a new high, the weather is dreamy, and the sidewalks overflowing with new talent. Lighten up, it's time for a summer fling, no strings attached.

Have you considered he knows who you are from your column, and is playing you for a chump? Celebrity has it's price, and the clever man learns to flatter the Devil before praising the saint. Go figure. He might have just wanted phone sex...regardless, if I were you, and had anything left of a heart to break, I certainly wouldn't serve it up here...although playing victim CAN get a girl laid!