I had a pretty rough morning with my 20 month old so much so that when my girlfriend offered to take her and my 3 year old swimming, I told her that I would go too b/c I needed some positive time with my girl. [OMG longest sentence ever, no?] Some days and even weeks we are just in survival mode until bedtime. You and Mike are awesome parents and K is so blessed to have you. He'll realize that one day..maybe when he's 35... :)