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Riot and Frolic
Minnesota
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Interests: ballroom dancing, crafting, sewing, cooking, working out, running, decorating, reading, listening to music
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The Garbage Challenge - Attack of the Sandwich Bags
Posted May 14, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Ha! No way! Really? It seems like an unlikely place to make any bank in a robbery… Next time, I'll bring a gun.
List of Last Week's Labors of Love
- fun fact: I yawn when I'm nervous. I don't get butterflies anymore and I would rarely go so far to say I'm actually "nervous", but when the gun is about to go off... I look sleepy. *yawn yawn yawn* Like, ferocious yawning. - we traveled with the 3 ladies on a plane again and no one died (...
Blurg. Now I'm going to have to write an article… :P back atcha! :)
Be Better
It's very simple. Stop complaining. Be better. One year ago: Let's Meditate Two years ago: Interesting Fact
List of Last Week's Labors of Love
Posted May 13, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Lest you think this post was a veiled criticism of amateur events and the Dancing Times, I interact with students who dance pro-am and other professionals 97% of the time and this post was meant for them. It's really meant mostly for me, since I have complained about all things and wanted change without first thinking how I could get better.
Obviously, if a complaint is made and nothing is done about it, write a letter or article or make a petition or do something.
If you don't understand your marks, or anyone else's, ask a judge. Note: ask a judge. Ask nicely, but ask them (when you're done dancing). Don't ask your friends or family; they either don't know or they're biased.
Be Better
It's very simple. Stop complaining. Be better. One year ago: Let's Meditate Two years ago: Interesting Fact
"Learn from it" or even "deal with it". There are certain things that happen in a competition that you have no control over, namely what other people do. You have control over YOURSELF (your hair, makeup, costume, attitude, training, stamina, nerves, execution). If you don't like that, you should find another way to showcase your dancing, of which there are many (performance categories at competitions, studio showcases, formation teams, solo routines, etc.).
I've heard a lot of dancers lately (pro, pro-am, am) blaming their result on various factors outside themselves. My questions are these:
- if you're better than so-and-so, are you better at everything all the time by a lot, or do you just have slightly better footwork sometimes?
- if it's not okay when so-and-so wins, why is it okay when you win?
- if you are, far and away, the best dancer in the floor, do you REALLY think it matter that no one knows you, that one judge doesn't like you, or the floor is slippery?
If you have valid complaints about blatant favoritism, rule violations, or ballroom conditions, be helpful! You should contact the chairman of judges or the organizer. Otherwise, the problems will go unnoticed or unaddressed.
In the meantime, practice! Learn! Improve! Be better!
Be Better
It's very simple. Stop complaining. Be better. One year ago: Let's Meditate Two years ago: Interesting Fact
Be Better
Posted May 10, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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How to Make Diaper Wipes
Posted May 9, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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The Pursuit of Happiness
Posted May 8, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Food Revolution Day - Giveaway
Posted May 7, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Is it a plateau thing or just a let-down from all the adrenaline and build-up to the comp? Either way: BOO.
I've just found that while I'm decent on a certain scale, it's a big-fish-in-a-little-pond deal, where really, I'm a freaking tiny fish in a super humongous ocean. Rar.
Also, I'm sick of people complaining about factors that ARE dancesport competitions: judges, subjective judging, preconceived notions, being "better" than other competitors that are beating the complainer, politics, whatever. Instead of focusing on what everyone else is doing, can't we all focus on getting better? Rar.
Just keep swimming, I guess.
List of Last Week's Labors of Love
- "Mama, your nails are beige and black..." [me: how does she know the word for "beige"?] "... like Gramma and Grampa's bathroom." ... Not what I was going for, but, totally spot on. i was going for #3 - got my nails did again. For some reason, I decided it would be easier (NOT CHEAPER) ...
List of Last Week's Labors of Love
Posted May 6, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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The Year of F-ing Replacing Things
Posted May 1, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Winner Winner, Sinus Buster
Posted Apr 30, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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List of Last Week's Labors of Love - Birthday Edition
Posted Apr 29, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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The Case for a Marathon - In Honor of Boston
Posted Apr 24, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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To Enjoy Your Food - IT'S A GIVEAWAY
Posted Apr 23, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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List of Last Week's Labors of Love - Late Night Edition
Posted Apr 22, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Why I Hate Pinterest
Posted Apr 11, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Sinus Buster
Posted Apr 10, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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The Garden of Good (and Barely Any Evil) : 2013
Posted Apr 9, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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List of Last Week's Labors of Love
Posted Apr 8, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Sunday Special: Free
Posted Apr 7, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Why I Love Dancing With The Stars
Posted Apr 4, 2013 at Riot and Frolic
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Hey Babies Mama,
I agree.
Awesome! Fashionable toddlers unite!
I'm So Proud of Myself
I followed a pattern. Well, 90% of the pattern. And it turned out so well that I'm going to do the pattern AGAIN. And again and again and again. Dana, over at Made, has a GREAT tutorial on how to make a girl's dress out of a man's shirt. And while going through our Goodwill pile, I snatched ...
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