Well . . . I`m a women and what you guys feel for Neytiri, I feel for Jake! He is one hot, sexy, manly, attractive, charming, expressive and brave man that you immedeately feel appeald too! I know we are meny women who thinks that!! I´m like you . . getting depressed that he not exists. . and Pandora. :´ ( They sure make a beautiful and interesting couple, don´t they???