I've found myself on the other side. I grew up a Marvel girl, but have found myself over the last year drifting over more and more to the DCU. I don't recognize my favorite characters in Marvel, and some of the stories have even made me more upset than I care to admit. I still read a couple: Fraction's Iron Man and David's X-Factor, but that's about it. The DCU, overall, feels more familiar. It has its faults (you mentioned Batman, and I'd agree), but I find myself more excited about their books than I have from anything Marvel in a long time; especially JH Williams's Batwoman, whenever that finally comes out.