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Mr. Sting
Sting Investigations, Inc. is a private investigative agency in Tulsa, OK that speciallizes in surveillance cases. (cheating spouse, child custody, insurance or workers comp fraud).
Interests: Sting Investigations, INC. is interested in helping our clients determine the truth, by conducting video surveillance.
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Mar 15, 2010
Consider using Google to get an aerial view of the area, to also help you in court.
Great post.
Am I an Investigator or a Trial Consultant....
Most of the time I blog about interviews or communication because that is the central part of my job as an investigator. Many of you may not know that Investigation is not my only talent. Because I understand the dynamics of sex abuse claims so well I am always thinking of the case in the big p...
Dawn,
Good post. Would love to hear more about how the tragedy shaped the wonderful person you are today.
Valentine Day Blog - Part 1
20 yrs today my day was all planned out; cookies to deliver, a job to get too and a boyfriend to see. I dressed in red; I looked fabulous. I delivered cookies to my Grandparents who I adored beyond words. I arrived on time at work hoping to sneak out early. At some point my Mom needed a ride to...
Dawn,
I am sad for you, and for your client today. Sometimes our profession can be painful. I am sure your chosen area can be especially difficult.
Remember though that you make a difference in the lives of your clients. You also make a major difference in the world. You expose the truth, so that others may better defend themselves and their children.
The world is a better place because of what you do and who you are.
I am sorry for your loss.
Remembrance
Sometimes in my work I get good news and some times I get really bad news. This week brought bad news. Michael, one of my past clients died this weekend. He had been abused as a young boy by clergy, that abuse was so powerful that even in his 40s he could never escape the pain of his nightmare....
That is truly good news, because I have the best friends.
You my friend, are the best of the best.
Thank you!
This post is for my friends and supporters like Mr. Sting
"You can not measure and mans wealth by his money but you can measure it by his friends." Author Unknown
Dawn,
For you to post this with a track back is a real compliment. I really appreciate it.
Be a Free Thinker- By Mr. Sting
I think on a day like today, Mr. Sting's post yesterday is worth repeating on my blog: Today is Martin Luther King Day. Tomorrow we inaugurate a new president. This is a new world. Doesn't matter if you like the changes, or if you don't. Fact is they are here. You can learn to adapt, or not...
Good blog post. Let's people know what you do, why you do it, and how. Love to see you posting every day. No secret to anyone I know, that I think very highly of you.
All cases have victories, large and small, some come all wrapped up with a big red bow on top!
As you read my blogs you will find I always circle back around to the topic of sex abuse. I will talk about the Jets or the Packers, my family and friends or really whatever I want to talk about at the time of my blog but ultimately I will always come back to this topic because it is so importa...
Dawn,
Your blog posts are excellent. I think I may be a little jealous that they may be better than mine ;)
New Years Resolutions
Every year I make the usual resolutions in my head; lose weight, get healthy, become more organized etc etc. Some times I keep them sometimes I don't. In general I make it a practice all year long to try and improve my life but for some reason we all put a special focus on New Years. I am going ...
Dawn,
You are one of very few private investigators that is constantly looking for ways to improve. I look forward to hearing how you manage to get better. I have recommended it before, but I will again --- OneNote.
End of the year lessons for improving my business-
As the end of the year closes I always try to get ready for the new year. As an investigator it is important to organize, prioritize and categorize your work. It is not that hard if you are good at what you do. These are three important work habits that any good investigator should constantly b...
Great job! I noticed you had been missing in action lately. Probably putting the finishing touches on your reports for this case. This industry (and this world) needs more like you.
Happy endings
I have been working on a sex abuse case for the last 15 months. The case was set to go to trial December 15th. With alot of solid evidence, the best attorneys in town and a determined client we powered forward toward the trial date. Sometimes a trial is not the best outcome for a client, today ...
Dawn,
In this business, you "do what you gotta do". All there is to it. That is why you are successful at it, and in demand. I had a rough few days my self. Not from being sick. Just very tired from some odd hours. Makes you weary, and sometimes makes me a little cranky. Bad times pass, the same way the good ones do. And vice versa.
PS Happy Birthday and feel better.
Running on empty
Sometimes we find ourselves doing just that. I have been running on empty for several days. Taking inspiration anywhere I can get it. I am sure I am fight a flu bug but I need to rally. Some people ask me why I do not just stay home--I do not always have that luxery. I have a client counting o...
Dawn,
The feeling is mutual :)
Self Employment-Networking
As the owner of All Things Legal. It is all up to me to bring success to my company. Sometimes it seems like it would be easier to go to work for someone else, punch a time clock and collect a paycheck. How do I stay motivated on days like today. It is Sunday and the sun is shining, I could ea...
Excellent post Tony. South Africa is a beautiful place.
Where I work as a PI and why (Mr. Tony Goring)
I dont like posting the same old thing everywhere so having introed on another blog here is a different slant on my introduction. We get approached for all manner of investigative taskings that have an African flavor. Unfortunately we often have to dispel many myths, perceptions and beliefs ab...
Great quote.
Inspiring
"Find a job you love and you'll never work a day in your life". Confusious
I like to think of cases as prisms. You know the round crystal ones, with hundreds of sides. Sometimes taking a step back, and a few steps to either side gives you a completely different perspective.
Sometimes a case can lead to a dead end...
This has happened to me before; so what do I do. I take a break to clear my head. I had a case once where I needed to find an important witness in a false arrest case but I kept running into dead ends. That all changed when I brainstormed with another investigator. Doing that helped me get an...
Dawn,
Our agency also combats sexual abuse of children, but by different means. We are often hired to prove that a child is spending time with someone that is a convicted child molester. That is often done in custody cases. There have been many cases we have worked where our video helped get a child out of a very dangerous situation. We have several cases going on at this very moment that involve determining if a child is allowed (or made) to spend time with a dangerous person. Several of those cases involve specific court orders against a specific person being around a child .
My specialty is working with survivors of childhood sex abuse
The topic today is a tough one, because no one wants to talk about sex abuse. But I’m going to. For those who have suffered abuse, not talking about it doesn’t make it go away, but sometimes giving the victim a chance to talk about it, can bring the incident to closure. I have spent the last ...
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