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Oct 25, 2010
LOL!! thats so funny!!! Nice one Leonie!
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Hi M, yes she's potty alright. I think this ploy to make all Survivors certified as crazy is just that a ploy... a well planned thought out plan. Make them all crazy and when they disclose those perps that are in influencial possitions in society or have a lot to lose by being found out can basically say well she is crazy... She's been certified as crazy so you can't believe anything she says. Its gonna be one of their defences as well as paying off judges (Ooops!! I wonder how many judges are in these peadophile rings and lawyers???) Oh man!!! did I just say all that out loud...oh its ok cause I'm certified as crazy!!! So no one will listen to me anyway!!! lol!!! Ya know what I don't care, someone might listen and a seed might get planted. Its time to flush all the B@@@@@@ds out!!!
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I wonder what it would take to get 60 minutes or inside NZ to do a investigative story on all of this???? Are they allowed to or could FGS have them up for defamation of character??? Maybe go to fair go???? I wonder how you get these stories out there more???? does anyone have a friend that works with TV???? Why aren't any of them picking up this ACC fiasco???? Would it be too damning??? Who owns TV? What stops things like this going on TV?? Maybe we all should start writing to Campbell live, 60 minutes???? What are they afraid of? this is news New Zealanders need to be aware of!!!
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How the heck did she get so influential? Money!!! It must be bigger than just centrepoint!!! Wouldn't be surprised if she isn't involved in some much bigger scam and earning lots of big dollars and those she's in with. I reckon this is just a small opening in a very large can of worms!!! It is so time for all survivors to come out of hiding and expose the lot of them. But there needs to be protection and support for all that have something to expose... We all have to band together and become United.
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Nine months? Is that all? And managed with medication? Does that mean he can't recover from this addiction? Wouldn't that be like giving a alcoholic a pill to get over his alcohol addiction? I'm confused what medication would he be on to stop this sex addiction? Wouldn't that be awesome to beable to give all peadophiles a pill to stop them abusing children? Come on... is there really a pill that can stop someone getting off on child sexual abuse? And a Doctor... what the heck!!! What is going on here??? Please explain I just do not get it. Aaaggghhh!!!
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Hi Sophie, I so connected with what you said about thinking that you were in some nightmare and not believing that it all happened. It has also taken me 6 years plus to believe it and that I haven't made it up. I even questioned that was multiple and thought what is really wrong with me. Why am I making all this stuff up. Even now I have times when I try and go there but I have to tell myself don't be stupid. The Therapy I have had has helped me to deal with facing that I have parts, that they hurt for me, that they came all out of love, that they are not they but are me. I still sometimes refer to them as they or her, and blame them but the fact is its all me and being thankful to them, and being compassionate helps. So know that the therapy has worked helps to remind me that yes I am/was? multiple and thats why the therapy helped. lol!!! Being compassionate still and accepting their feelings as normal feelings, that I am allowed to have them is something I am working on now and one thing that has helped is now that I actually do feeling the range of feelings that everyone normally feels and its normal. Ha!!! sometimes think man it was easier before when I only felt one emotion at a time cause now I have to deal with all these different ones often at the same time. I am learning that what I feel at any given time is normal and is healthy and is ok.
Toggle Commented Jul 30, 2010 on Connecting Through Diagnosis at Multiple Voices
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Wow!!! how wonderfully said. I hope a copy of that can go to the review panel, Nick Smith and Peter Jansen. And the newspaper. ACC counselling made it possible for me to be where I am today too. I am now able to live a very joyful life that 5 years ago or so I would never have thought possible. I am now able to pay back society by helping others and hope to be financially independent while doing that. By taking away this funding they are just gonna be loading up WINZ and Mental Health services. I think Kyle McDonald is right they are all in Denial. Or dumb or something. What do they really think they are trying to achieve here? Whats really behind this move??? Its crazy and they all should be given a diagnosis, see how they like being labelled mad. they are the psychotic ones not us, all we want is for those effected by sexual violence a chance to have a joyful life. Ugh!!! just having a moment!!!
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Hi Danielle How you going? Was great to meet you at the Summit. Didn't see you at the end so thought you must have had to leave. Just want to encourage you to say hi on here maybe. You did so well at the Summit - was so proud of what you did and how empowered you felt after it. Go girl!!! Hope all is well and would love to hear how you are getting on and if there has been any progress with ACC?
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Hi Jessica How you going? Hey I so like how you explained integration. Agree with you totally. thats a bit of how I experience it "a holding of hans, a strength of togetherness and a learning how our various strengths and gifts maybe used to help us find our 'place in the world'." yip thats what I am experiencing a bit of atm. Lots of tweeking though. I thought I had it all together with my study and then a friend got really sick and 10 weeks later died and it all just fell apart. too many emotions and my study part disappears so now I wonder do I just forget about study (this has happened before and I keep wasting money that I have to pay back in my student loan) or try and train those who are up front and presenting to study? Do we all have it or not? Well I am determined to finish my last essay whether I get it in on time or not cause I wanna see if I can do it and whether it will encourage my study part to come back. I think its about doing life all together and all have to learn to study and do emotions at the same time. Time will tell huh!!! will keep ya all posted on that one!!! lol!!! watch this space.
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Aww!!! RIP Jacqui! I didn't know you but I do know about you and from what I have heard I wish that I could have had the chance to know you. I heard that you also loved butterflies as do I and I know that now you will be surrounded by them and as an angel you will be comforting all the little children that need to be surrounded with love now in this world. I do hope that true justice will be served for the loss of your life. May you be surrounded with love and peace.
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I would hate to think that a film like this would incite copy cats but the thing is there are plenty of movies out there that do that anyway. I think that if this movie is a real representation of the things that actually occur and will bring awareness to the realities of these horrors. These are real things that happen and I think people need to have their eyes opened to what is happening under their noses, in their communities and neighbourhoods. Maybe even next door. Its time to start working against the epidemic of sexual violence. All types of violence actually. All types of abuse.
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Wow!!! Gudrun that is fantastic!!! That must be so encouraging for you, I know how much work you've put into this and to know that many people have been on here looking around and hopefully getting lots of helpful tips etc Jessica it was so awesomet to meet you - I felt very honoured that you wanted to say hi to me before you went home. Thank you it meant heaps to me. Yeah!! a celebration! sounds good... what ya gonna do? Hope it includes pampering yourself!!
Toggle Commented Jun 21, 2010 on Multiple Voices Stats at Multiple Voices
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Oh Castorgirl, my heart hears and feels your heart as I know from my own experience where you are at and what you say here is real and is truth. Your voice right on here as you have had the courage to write this is awesome and thats a big step I know. I and other survivors who are there will be representing those who can't. So kia kaha (having strength, life and health) and love.
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Hi Jessica, I do hope that you are able to come! I will be at the desk for registrations. Do hope we can meet.
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Well its been 2 weeks now since Ma passed away and I still feel really sad. I still can't believe that she is gone and feel quite redundant now she is not there to visit and I no longer have to text and email everyone to let them know how she is. I am supposed to be studying for an exam and still have 2 essays to write. I continually each day try and study but have a huge blockage. Or may that part of me has disappeared cause too many emotions around. I have to somehow teach her that emotions are ok and that we still need to carry on and that she needs to be ok around emotions because they are never gonna go away. Glad I still have my fun person part who doesn't mind emotions but is great at covering them up. I've just realised I'm going between the two of us and am getting headaches again which always is an indication for me that I'm more fragmented than what I have been becoming as more normal. Just shows me that its gonna take a while to get things to a stage where fragmentation doesn't happen as much. I am avoiding the word integration as I am no longer sure that happens. But I do hope to get to a point in my life that I no matter what comes up I can stay consistent and not become fragmented letting others cover things up etc or withdrawing so it leaves our organisation etc into chaos. No wonder I can't string two words together and write well at the mo. Am thinking is cause with this particular part we don't have alot of concentration and focus. We are still able to function well and I have discovered its no good trying to get rid of emotions by using the fun part to try and make that part come back. Balance. Acknowledgement. Balance. And lots of self care. Getting there.
Toggle Commented Jun 14, 2010 on The Function of Feelings at Multiple Voices
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Hi s, as I sit here with tears rolling down my face just wishing that she was still here. She's not my real mother but was the kind of mother I always wished for and she softened my heart and persisted with reaching her love out to me until I let her in. My mother lives overseas. I guess she loved me in a way she could too so I do understand what you mean. But parts of me also hold her I think. Good way of putting it. thanks. (funny wonder how my name got changed from uznco to yviesback Gudrun? - guess is doesn't matter though.)
Toggle Commented Jun 4, 2010 on The Function of Feelings at Multiple Voices
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Parts of me feel lost Parts of me feel abandoned and alone Parts of me are angry because she ain't our mum Parts of me are sad...soo sad Parts of me just wanna howl parts of me don't Parts of me think - just get over yourself I feel that I am allowed to have these feelings. Its normal to have these feelings. I know she is better off where she has gone and is in no more pain and has no more sickness. I know that these feelings are normal. A feeling is a feeling. So I am feeling all of this and its overwhelming. I just want her back and thats selfish really cause she's better off now. I'm also glad cause she was in pain. After ten weeks of one thing after another and watching her fade away she is now resting in peace. Thats a good thing. But i will miss her so much. But I ache. I will carry on though cause I have to. I promised her that i would finish my studies. (Well at the moment my diploma - don't think at this stage I want to carry on). But then what. I promised I would forgive and make amends like she did. And we do have a mother!!! I wish there was a phone line to heaven so I could call her!!
Toggle Commented Jun 3, 2010 on The Function of Feelings at Multiple Voices
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Hi Danielle, wow!!! yes I read your story a while back now and just came on here tonight to have a read. I am glad you have found this site it is an awesome site and we try and support each other too. The information is extensive and Gudrun is great at helping us understand where we are at and working with it. I take my hat off to ya girl in telling your story to the newspaper. Very courageous. I am going to the summit and would love a chance to meet you and shake you hand or give ya a safe hug if thats ok. Well done, I hope you are patting yourself on the back. Take care and hope to see you there. The difference with this type of summit is that alot of us have been where you are now and we can support and encourage you because we do understand. I am so looking forward to the Summit because its a chance for us all to become a community - unified. There is a saying that I have heard recently "cause water rises collectively and it rises at the same level." So when all of us are staying in pain we all stay in pain and so when all of us are getting off the ground we're all getting off the ground - we can't help but not. We can fight this in numbers!!!
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A very dear friend died this week and I just needed to hear this. I feel a little lost and abandoned and just need to accept it I guess. I will miss her so much... she was like a mum to me and softened my heart and showed me what a real mum should be!!! Love you ma RIP! thanks you for this... it is so true!!!
Toggle Commented Jun 3, 2010 on Assurance at Meet Me In The Meadow
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Check out the following press release by New Zealand Government at 3:41 pm, 26 Apr 2010. It is erstounding that Nick Smith is keep paroting that the new clinical pathway is based on the Massey research - even though Massey has rejected this claim. Indeed, nothing in the Massey research... Continue reading
Posted May 7, 2010 at Yviesback's blog
OOps one of the men was a friend of mine cousin not the lady that died as a result of suicide.
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Hi Paul, ha! that makes me laugh because it feels like NZ National lead government are going the way of the states. Whispers of privatisation that I have heard yet now the states have called that rubbish and bringing back healthcare reforms. Or are they???? What really is going on is what I want to know, this totally sucks and I am so angry!!! What is going to become of those three children. Three men were killed on ANZAC day and my heart goes out to those families and even the Prime Minister send condolenses out to them - and it did get a bit closer to home as a one of the men was her cousin. And thats all very sad but my heart is cold to that and I feel resentful!!! What about John Key giving condolenses out to the families of the two suicides (or more, I've only heard of 2) that he has caused through his ACC reforms. What about those families.... who are they gonna blame for that!!! Grrrr!!! Sorry needed to vent.
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Wow!!! Awesome!!! Will have to make sure I do that - SOON!!! Hey I wonder if it matters what kind of tea... don't really like tea except Chai!!! Well I hope that you have done that today or will be doing it soon!!! hehe!!!
Toggle Commented Apr 29, 2010 on 6 Tips to Reduce Stress at Multiple Voices
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