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sex,marriage & family
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Well just a quick blog saying that if you are in a relationship, I don't just mean partnership but also family, make the most of what you have. There are times when I know how lucky I am with the husband and kids I have but I tend to forget to let them all know. So if you have someone special out there let them know, life can change so quickly in a few short minutes that you don't want to have any regrets. I was told growing up from my Grandmother that "you don't want to have any regrets... Continue reading
Posted Feb 17, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
Well let me start by saying that I can only blog to you all with my own personal experience and what did or did not work for my husband and myself. However in saying this I can tell you that we have been in exactly the same boat as my last commenter TravisT. For a while there my husband was constantly feeling like no matter what he did I always thought it was for one thing only and that I thought he was not attractive. Now this was all in his head to a certain extent as I have always... Continue reading
Posted Feb 13, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
How to spice up your marriage with out going to a swing club. Continue reading
Posted Feb 8, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
Ok I am going to change this blog around a little for the time being and get some input from you readers. Let me know where the most original and exciting place is that you have had sex, oral or intercourse. Once I have a few different ideas I will put them all together for you all to go and experiment or just fantasize about it. For me on the high rocks on a beach in another country, we had to climb up and no one could see us but still thinking back it was pretty exhilarating. I am looking... Continue reading
Posted Jan 22, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
This is something that my husband and I strongly disagree on. No he doesn't believe that affairs are ok but he does believe that if there is a mistake then that should be forgiven and forgotten about. I don't believe that there is an "ok" time for an affair, if the marriage is not working then leave and do what you want. If the marriage is working but you want to try being with someone else then go to a swingers club. When it comes to mistakes then this is where I have a problem. My view on a one... Continue reading
Posted Jan 13, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
This is one question that has been around for many many years and still there are different answers. I am not sure if there is one right answer. There is the view that to men Sex is just an action that helps relieve tension and stress and why not do it as often as possible since it feels so good. For the woman yea it too feels great but we want all the bells and whistles with it, the fore play and the love making. Women want to feel the connection with the person they are with while men just... Continue reading
Posted Jan 12, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
Well this is the hardest subject as it really depends on the partner. I can give you my input in that yes swinging was introduce to me by my husband and yes there were times I wondered if it is because I was not good enough. Really the only thing I can tell you all is that you just need to make sure your partner is loved and tell him or her that over and over. Maybe make a fuss over them and explain that they are good enough, you just want to add to the fun you both share.... Continue reading
Posted Jan 7, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
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Ok so over all this should not be something to get in the way of a marriage it should be something that adds excitement. Especially in the beginning, if one of you are not so sure then just go to the club and have fun as a couple. Just because you are at a swingers club you do not and I repeat do not have to join any other couples in any way. The two of you can have the night just watching others and being with each other and no one else. you could do this many times over... Continue reading
Posted Jan 5, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
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Jan 3, 2010
Since you all seem to prefer me talking about swinging here is my latest view. I have to be honest that I am a little annoyed but it is also typical, I was reading an article about swinging and how soft swinging is not advisable. Now first of all it was written by a man but second of all I think everyone has a choice to do what they want and what they feel comfortable with. This article was saying how soft swinging should not be done mainly because it can cause mixed signals and you get a guy all... Continue reading
Posted Jan 3, 2010 at Sex, Marriage & Family
So why is it that women feel it is wrong to get too excited about porn, swinging or anything out of the normal sexually? It seems to be the general consensus that women are not allowed to get too into sex or is it that women are worried of the reputation they may get! I must be honest the older I get the more I want and enjoy it. Now I am not sure if that is due to hormones changing or just my attitude over sex, porn and having fun sexually but I do know that there are times... Continue reading
Posted Dec 30, 2009 at Sex, Marriage & Family
Rarely do couples really tell each other what they are thinking in relation to sex and porn, and as such it remains a key topic of argument or suspicion within marriage. The key to removing these issues is talking and finding common ground. So when it comes to porn lets be honest, yes we are all human and our biology indicates that we like to look and admire or be attracted to others. So lets own that fact and not deny it. Just because we get married doesn't turn off that biological urge, rather we should embrace that energy and... Continue reading
Posted Dec 29, 2009 at Sex, Marriage & Family
One of the things I love about this time of year is family time. There is no school most kids are with parents so we get the kids to ourselves for a couple of days and get to spend quality family time. We play with the kids and their new toys or build lego with them or just sit and watch movies with each other. It is the one time of year that we as a family really connect with each other. This is mainly due to my husband and i making that happen. We both had childhoods where christmas... Continue reading
Posted Dec 27, 2009 at Sex, Marriage & Family
I want to talk about the affairs with the office. I was reading the articles on our website and it made me think of a few of our friends who really are having an affair with their job. Now I don't mean an actual sexual affair with someone in the office, which can easily happen I guess when they are together all the time before during and after work, but I am talking about when someone is so involved with their job that it takes all the time after work into the evening to continue working that the family... Continue reading
Posted Dec 22, 2009 at Sex, Marriage & Family
My latest blogger made me realize I had miss a very important issue. Teasing and flirting! Now swing clubs are great if you are into that but a couple does not need to go to a swing club just to get the flirting and sexual tension going between each other. Sometime all it takes is a night out to a nice dinner where you are wearing something very sexy, it is just the two of you out and yet it can turn into a really fun night. I remember once when I wore a dress with a cross over in... Continue reading
Posted Dec 14, 2009 at Sex, Marriage & Family