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Interests: thrift. make. give away. repeat.
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A Little More to the Left
I've moved: please adjust your screens, your feeds, and your expectations. Here. Under my name. (THE VANITY) (it's all basically the same. I promise.) Continue reading
Posted Mar 9, 2018 at all buttoned up.
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Right to Comfort, March Edition
I no longer roll in circles with people who speak wisdom into my life as a matter of divine purpose. I do, however, roll with people who speak a lot of truth into my life in the name of survival.... Continue reading
Posted Feb 28, 2018 at all buttoned up.
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It's Alright To Cry/You Might Feel Better, Baby
Four days after Christmas one of my teeth sheared off at the gum line. I was eating a cinnamon roll I should've left alone and I tried to fish out my crown-with-my-tooth-inside before I swallowed it. The jagged edges of... Continue reading
Posted Jan 26, 2018 at all buttoned up.
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Yes! Thank you for this. We have both books but I’ve been meaning to find you a third.
All my Favourite People are Broken
"I hate you. And I'm embarrassed you're my mom." "I feel you, bud." "We still have to wash your hair." **** His insults are genuine and heartfelt. And I twinge. But. The weight of his grief in those words are much heavier than mine will ever be. He's serious. He throws something heavy that I...
All my Favourite People are Broken
"I hate you. And I'm embarrassed you're my mom." "I feel you, bud." "We still have to wash your hair." **** His insults are genuine and heartfelt. And I twinge. But. The weight of his grief in those words are... Continue reading
Posted Jan 16, 2018 at all buttoned up.
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The Body Holds On
In 2007 the adoption section at Powell's was divided into distinct camps: How-To, Parenting the Unattached Child, and Memoirs of Children Adopted in SE Asian Countries. I read what I could find. We had sorted out the "how-to" bit pretty... Continue reading
Posted Oct 26, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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The Man Who Walks Among the Stars
I was going through YouTube videos of Gord Downie and The Tragically Hip this week. I drank tea and felt the most Canadian. And then I found this video of him accepting an honour at the Assembly of First Nations... Continue reading
Posted Oct 20, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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Thanks Liz. Im going to talk to one of the educators about the impact of her statements/thinking because Im very sure shes ready and willing to hear it. As much as I want to assume good intentions, I can tell that the others arent-- which certainly wont stop me from pushing back in the future! Being called out/in is such a gift, isnt it?!
September Gold
"Let's start by talking about his strengths", she said. "He's quiet. Kind. On task." "Quiet, yes." **** After a very *crispy* summer, all six of the Framily Children began school this August. The youngest one was declared the Most Ready in The History of Readiness as she marched into Kinderga...
September Gold
"Let's start by talking about his strengths", she said. "He's quiet. Kind. On task." "Quiet, yes." **** After a very *crispy* summer, all six of the Framily Children began school this August. The youngest one was declared the Most Ready... Continue reading
Posted Sep 13, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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Holiday Letter: Summer 2017
Hannah texted me a photo of our family this week. It is the six member version and it was taken on a Sunday before we took her to the airport. We all have morning faces, droopy clothes, and are sitting... Continue reading
Posted Aug 15, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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We are Bound to Inherit the Sins of Our Parents
I flew to South Florida to hand off the two oldest for the summer. It was hot but not so hot that I felt helpless. It was humid but not so humid that I felt stymied. J does not force... Continue reading
Posted Jul 3, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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Well Appointed Gardens I Have None
March has been unusually cold and wet. Everything is soggy and weedy. We started on the backyard over the weekend, which meant folding tarps and removing the scrap metal. It now looks less like a squat and more like your... Continue reading
Posted Apr 3, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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Oh, my friend Emily. I have been writing about this dangerous world for years. I am concerned, now, with the present--which is clear and ever dangerous for my people. Thank you for reading. My story, is my story.
Frida Frida With the Pole Through Her Body
I didn't watch the Oscars the other night. We haven't been to a movie in ages and for once I'm itching to see so many. Storytelling has always been a popular way to deliver content, change minds, and sell crap. There are so many people making movies about hard places and beautiful things to te...
On it!
Frida Frida With the Pole Through Her Body
I didn't watch the Oscars the other night. We haven't been to a movie in ages and for once I'm itching to see so many. Storytelling has always been a popular way to deliver content, change minds, and sell crap. There are so many people making movies about hard places and beautiful things to te...
Frida Frida With the Pole Through Her Body
I didn't watch the Oscars the other night. We haven't been to a movie in ages and for once I'm itching to see so many. Storytelling has always been a popular way to deliver content, change minds, and sell crap.... Continue reading
Posted Mar 2, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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OH! To live in a blogging world of handmade valentines! Thank you for being here, for reaching out, and for your kind words. I deeply appreciate them.
Citizen as Participant
I used to write and hit publish and then go back and fix the typos I swore I had already corrected. I am trying to be more diligent now, but I need a good editor and someone to proofread and then tell me to order my thoughts accordingly. This is an apology to my writer-ly friends who read and ...
So Executive. So Orderly.
I do not know how to explain "Mass Deportation" to my children. I understand that I need to do it. I am stuck because this is what I know they will ask me: Why are you not stopping this? Why... Continue reading
Posted Feb 22, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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Take Me To Your River (Part 2)
Every day conversations. "I'm hungry. What can I have?" "______" "Never mind, I'm not that hungry." Or. "If they try to talk to you on your own, you need to ask for another adult to be present. Or ask to... Continue reading
Posted Feb 15, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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I'm just so happy that you're still writing here. I read everything you post, even though I barely comment.
sun catcher
We've not had many summery days here in Wellington, but I wanted to capture a little bit of sun when it appeared recently. Perhaps some warm weather is still on its way, like a parcel lost in the post? I made a few sun catchers (details here) with flowers pressed back at the start of the s...
Nothing feels particularly right, does it?
Citizen as Participant
I used to write and hit publish and then go back and fix the typos I swore I had already corrected. I am trying to be more diligent now, but I need a good editor and someone to proofread and then tell me to order my thoughts accordingly. This is an apology to my writer-ly friends who read and ...
Tiny Missionary
I am the child and grandchild of former missionaries. My maternal grandparents spent a lifetime in Nigeria working to improve agricultural methods, caring for lepers, praying for their neighbors, and spreading the Good News. When we were cleaning out their... Continue reading
Posted Feb 10, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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Citizen as Participant
I used to write and hit publish and then go back and fix the typos I swore I had already corrected. I am trying to be more diligent now, but I need a good editor and someone to proofread and... Continue reading
Posted Feb 9, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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Thank you so much for being here, Sarah.
And All That Was Left Was His Love
The church I grew up in did not sing gospel music, per se, but more contemporary types of praise music mixed in with hymns... Um, choruses? They were often performed slightly off tempo thanks an abundance of acoustic guitar and hand percussion. They'd best be compared to camp songs if you'd li...
And All That Was Left Was His Love
The church I grew up in did not sing gospel music, per se, but more contemporary types of praise music mixed in with hymns... Um, choruses? They were often performed slightly off tempo thanks an abundance of acoustic guitar and... Continue reading
Posted Feb 6, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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Give More Give Everything Give Blood
I have Mary Tyler Moore episodes on my split screen right now. You Tube, you are the devil, but sometimes you come through beautifully. Paul bought me season 1-3 of "Rhoda" for one of our first Christmases together. We met... Continue reading
Posted Feb 5, 2017 at all buttoned up.
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