Thank you everyone! I have a nephew from my oldest sister and Tamara (the one that just found out she's pregnant) has two stepchildren! I am so excited!

it sounds like something has to go on the back burner. I am only a mother of one and this post just overwhelmed me. You NEED to find a way to take a breather. I know you have lots on your plate but something has to give before you do. School is important and so is your commitment to the wedding, but NOTHING is more important than your health or the health of your baby. I see you say you're financially stressed so if I can I'd like to make a free suggestion? you and your husband need to come up with a system where once or twice a week you both have 1 to 2 hours where NO ONE is allowed to bother you unless it's life threatening. So however you have to make that happen. MAKE IT HAPPEN!! Whatever is going on in life can wait 1 to 2 hours. During this time period you're not allowed to do anything unless it's for you. If that means going to a friends house, or locking yourself in the bathroom for a long bath so be it...Make sure everyone (your 4yrold included) understands the rules. THe only way this wont work is if you find reasons for it not to work. If it means your 4yr old goes to bed earlier twice a week or dinner is later twice a week so be it. I read in a book summary that we often put unrealistic expectations on ourselves and it stresses us out and causes us to not enjoy life. As yourself if there are any unrealistic expectations you're putting on yourself for this time in your life? Are you moving in rhythm with the season you're in right now? You're in the season of pregnancy, do your daily activities reflect that? I hope this helps you! Love ya!