Thank you for sharing this, Greta. I've been sitting here for five minutes trying to figure out what to write next, but it boils down to this: what you wrote is twenty years old and dammit, people are still dying from AIDS. My brother died from it just a few months ago. Every time I think of him it hurts. Every time I move through the day without him it hurts. I know these things settle and change over time, and that given time it will hurt less even as I go on missing him. I just need to share this post around. But I don't think I'll be watching that documentary for a while. Thank you. Dee