Need some answers, I am a grandmother raising 3 wonderful grand children. They are my life and I am adopting them but, always a but. There is a other Grandmother who want's visitation with the kids and she was the type of person that she used the kids, like to get money to pay bills, money for food and money from the church and money from different agencies so that her and her husband did not have to work. Always begging for groceries and stuff, always asking for bill money. And her living arrangements are not the best either, so I choose not to have the kids around her, so am I wrong.