"I’m the guy you find snuggling up in front of a campfire or fireplace, our warm arms and legs intertwined communicating trusting, enjoying the commitment love brings the Joy of living as gay men". Even my screen-saver on my PC reflects the tenderness experienced as two naked men snuggle up like spoons as they wake up in the morning. I enjoy movies, TV, biking to the beach (taking a picnic lunch) and bodysurfing at the mouth of the Santa Ana river where the water is warmest. I enjoy long walks in the park or a BBQ in the back yard. I'm a photographer and a gardener (love home grown tomatoes) Professionally, Im an energy manager (control commercial utility costs). I believe in long term relationships (that why I âm writing this long dialogue). Ive been in 2 ½ relationships that lasted many years (between 5 and 8) sadly we just grew apart (a part of growth I guess). I've always been in relationships where my partner was a large number of years younger than myself, so I expect that the man I commit to this time will be about 20 years younger than myself. Otherwise, Im open minded, friendly, and enjoy a good "spirited" conversation. (after all, how else do we learn things these days, other than Goggle that is). I Visit the bars primarily to visit friends, dance and play some pool. I'm HIV neg. I am a masculine man who is a little submissive or a little dominant (depends on who I am with) who likes like being naked, role-play and playing outside naked. I'm partial to white guys who are a little kinky . Well that's all I can think of email me at Outdoortype @ ca.rr.com if you have any questions or want to just chat. What I’m looking for in a Life Mate? Open minded, friendly, funny, serious, and affectionate (he is one great kisser). Someone who takes pride in themselves (not a bodybuilder or the like) but enjoys looking at, and having others look at his body. He doesnot need the attention of strangers, but likes to show off. Being in-shape, being a nudist and exhibitionist come naturally. Of course, he likes to snuggle, camp, be out-of-doors and enjoys sex out of doors as well. He is a little kinky, sort-of always willing to try anything once (as long as no pain is involved, it’s safe and it is mutually consented to.) He is slender of build, not too tall, . He can be laid-back and easy going, but enjoys being an aggressive top too. Playing with toys is something he likes to experiment with. His body language, and eye contact are sexy, he knows hes cute, and the effect it has on me, and uses every opportunity to express himself with these attributes. I love kissing, body contact, rimming (getting and giving, gets me rock hard), giving head ( I give great head and love cum in my mouth and on my face). I love big shooters!!! (while playing safe) He is gainfully employed and lives with a man because he want to, not because he needs to. He has his own like and dislikes and is not afraid to express them. While he enjoys the time we share, and the things we have in common, he doesn't feel we have to do everything together, and is comfortable operating on his own. He makes up his own mind not afraid to disagree with me. He can communicate his thoughts as well as his affection. He loves the sun (as do I) so we agree to live in a warmer climate. If we have a pool or not depends but water near by is a must. I am interested, and honored, To support the growing effort on behalf of the youth that are searching for answers that I may have experience with has been a dream of mine. After all, I grew up gay as they are. From the age 13-14 or so questions, feelings and the emotions started to appear, (boy could I tell you some stories) however, the fear of talking to someone, conflicted with being accepted as normal, it was always more important than taking chances by talking to someone. This I believe is one of the values of the Internet, anonymity. These young persons from what ever age are looking for answers, and if we are lucky, you and I, will be able to support them with helpful answers. I’m well aware that we must aim for an audience that is 18 and above, (to stay within network guidelines) but also aware that we won’t know for sure anything other than if a younger person feels securer, and sees this website as an opportunity to get a question answered, they will take advantage of it. I sure would. The youth of our nation are searching, as are the adults for truth. Gay , lesbian and transsexuals are in a unique position , they cannot openly discuss or discoverer, not only who they are, but why they must fear to question the unknown, foreign to their counterparts in society. Filled with turmoil, who can they turn to for guidance? The traditional parent or pastor relationship is not available to them with out without judgment. There is only one God, one source of intelligence, the fabric of the universe comes from a single source. Krishna, Buddha, Allah or Jesus, We are all children of God. He/She wants only the best and most enlightened guidance provided these children and young adults. As a conduit I plan to provide the groundwork for a network that will provide such loving understanding. As a gay man who has grown up living through this turmoil, I plan to offer my wisdom, and life experience to bring joy and guidance. Not only on this plane, but on the Spiritual plane as well through friendship and guidance. Floating on the currents of life, birds on the wind harness the infinite power of the universe… elevating effortlessly. Quite as a whispering breeze they hear and respond to the Divine Intelligence that underlies each decision, each dip and twist of tail sending them effortlessly to the highest good. I too am empowered and guided by Spirit… when I listen to the wisdom whispered by Nature. There is a tendency in us to revert to old ideas... Let us think something new, even if it be wrong... If a man feeds me every day of my life, in the long run I shall lose the use of my hands. Spiritual death is the result of following each other like a flock of sheep. Death is the result of inaction. Be active; and wherever there is activity, there must be difference. Difference is the sauce of life; it is the beauty, it is the art of everything; difference makes all beautiful here. It is variety that is the source of life, the sign of life. Why should we be afraid of it? Swami Vivekananda My altar to Divine Intelligence is the Experience of Nature -Jesus is one of many of my teachers . The youth of our nation are searching, as are the adults for truth. Gay , lesbian and transsexuals are in a unique position , they cannot openly discuss or discoverer, not only who they are, but why they must fear to question the unknown, foreign to their counterparts in society. Filled with turmoil, who can they turn to for guidance? The traditional parent or pastor relationship is not available to them with out without judgment. ----------------------- "What the ancient rishis saw so clearly was that the totality of energy in the universe, which modern physics call the quantum field, is a creative source for each person to play in, like a mud-bank waiting for a child to make mud-pies, mud-dolls, or mud-houses. You cannot see any objects in the featureless mud, and yet in a sense all objects have the potential to be there." -Deepak Chopra There is only one God, one source of intelligence, the fabric of the universe comes from a single source. Krishna, Buddha, Allah or Jesus, We are all children of God. He/She wants only the best and most enlightened guidance provided these children and young adults. As a conduit I plan to provide the groundwork for a network that will provide such loving understanding. As a gay man who has grown up living through this turmoil, I plan to offer my wisdom, and life experience to bring joy and guidance. Not only on this plane, but on the Spiritual plane as well through friendship and guidance. Continue reading