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A secret location outside London
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Oh, Hi! I definitely remember you--and Isabella. How is she? I think of her sometimes--whenever I see a large poodle. Good to hear from you!
Here is what I wrote about Bailey, after she left us suddenly. http://whatdoiknow.typepad.com/what_do_i_know/2009/12/bailey-pink.html
And here is Sparky's story: http://whatdoiknow.typepad.com/what_do_i_know/2013/09/sparkys-irish-luck.html
We were lucky to find each other, when I was grieving so much for my Bailey girl.
Catching up
New kitten Lucy, because kitten pictures make everything better. I re-read my last blog post and realized I sounded pretty bitter. That's not like me. (Okay, it is, but I lie a lot—it's my blog; I'm allowed to fudge. Plus, fiction writer here. Lying is what we do.) Of course I am still bitter...
I know, that's how I felt. I don't trust people anymore--strangers anyway. There are a couple of cows nearby I visit sometimes. Maybe it's time to pay them a visit!
Goodbye Cruel World, And I Do Hope I Don't Mean That Literally
Sad Lincoln. (Photo taken by me at the White House.) I happened upon this blog the other day (searching for a recipe, which is the main reason I come here anymore) and saw Matt Lauer's face, leering from the most recent post. (That long ago? Wow. I think I set a record for not blogging.) I apo...
I wish I hadn't watched it. I was about to go to bed when it started, and I just sat and watched, horrified. At least Stranger Things was entertaining.
Donald Trump Wins the Clown Forum
Matt Lauer hosted the new reality show Search for the Commander-in-Chief last night. I didn't sleep well last night. I had the same problem the other night after watching Stranger Things, a terrifying new show on Netflix that features monsters from the Upside Down and a preternaturally emotive...
I really can't say, Beverly.
John F. Kennedy: What Future Would We Have Had?
John F. Kennedy and Jackie Kennedy, Kennedys Museum, Berlin I was looking up some Kennedy quotes today for a reason entirely unrelated to the 50th anniversary of his death. And as I read them, I realized why so many people were moved so deeply when he died. We don't know what would have happe...
That's good to know. I shall be doing the same thing!
Can you go home again?
I leave tomorrow for a visit to London. I have mixed feelings about that. While I want to be able to walk the hills of the Chilterns, ride the Underground to museums and galleries, and poke around castles and other ancient places, I don't look forward to that feeling that it's only temporary, ...
I'm glad you liked the setting; that's always a big worry for me--that someone local will read it and know I'm not from round there! Thanks for the comment!
New book!
I almost forgot to post anything here; I've been so busy! I have a new novel published (under my pen name, Kathryn Barrett). You can find buy links here, and read more about how the book came about here. Meanwhile, the back of the book blurb: Connor Forrest is a self-made billionaire only on...
Just read your post, and that is so, so true for me too! This: "the ancient old-world feel of Europe is just my style." I had no idea until I moved there how much I would really feel at home amidst that--strange, isn't it? I have always loved history and antiques so the idea of living amongst them should have been a no-brainer. Loved your post!
Drawing a Line Under It, One Year Later
Hacking the BBC to watch London's New Year's Eve fireworks. This proved to be a melancholy moment. Someone just posted a photo on Twitter of the north London sky. It was pretty ordinary—I've seen better, frankly, in New Mexico—but I got sad, in the homesick way I do whenever I see someone post...
Sometimes I think it's the right of way access that I miss most, other times the weather/lack of bugs, other times the driving/lack of sprawl. I miss it all! I do need to move back. Hmm...
Drawing a Line Under It, One Year Later
Hacking the BBC to watch London's New Year's Eve fireworks. This proved to be a melancholy moment. Someone just posted a photo on Twitter of the north London sky. It was pretty ordinary—I've seen better, frankly, in New Mexico—but I got sad, in the homesick way I do whenever I see someone post...
Marcus, I deleted it and will also delete this one, since it mentions the email address in the "reply to". We are still waiting to find out if it worked, but early indications are that it did not completely work, as we still see green balls on the tree; perhaps not so many as before, hopefully.
Deflowering a Sweetgum Tree
Sweetgum balls litter the lawn The bane of my existence these last few weeks has been the sweetgum balls that fell in the yard over the winter. I'd thought the white willows we had in our garden in England were noxious; I've found there is something worse. Much worse. The American Sweetgum (Li...
You're right, Debra, and I do like to poke fun at myself for constantly complaining when the truth is, I complained when I lived elsewhere too! There is no perfect place, so learning to thrive where we're planted will make for more happiness in the long run. But there's also value in just getting out all those frustrations, preferably to like minded people, and then letting it go. I do that quite a lot with my fellow ex-pats and ex-ex-pats.
Reasons I Hate Living Here Number Eleventy—Eleventy-three
Where the cicadas live. I know, it's been, what, two months since I wrote about how much I hate living here, with longing references to how much I loved living in England even though I complained about the plumbing and the weather all the time when I did. If you can't parse that sentence, so...
I can't wait for fall, not just for the lower heat, but the lower incidence of snake sightings! <-- Things I never thought I'd say.
Reasons I Hate Living Here Number Eleventy—Eleventy-three
Where the cicadas live. I know, it's been, what, two months since I wrote about how much I hate living here, with longing references to how much I loved living in England even though I complained about the plumbing and the weather all the time when I did. If you can't parse that sentence, so...
I actually kind of like raking leaves, but the problem is you can't just rake them once, it has to be done every. Single. Week. After a couple of weeks, and when you realize you're too big to jump in the piles, it's no fun anymore. We did get a lawn service, finally, after realizing there were better things to do on the weekend than take care of a big lawn.
Today is nice, I'll grant you :)
Reasons I Hate Living Here Number Eleventy—Eleventy-three
Where the cicadas live. I know, it's been, what, two months since I wrote about how much I hate living here, with longing references to how much I loved living in England even though I complained about the plumbing and the weather all the time when I did. If you can't parse that sentence, so...
Oh, I hope that means they either found homes or that sterilization has worked in bringing down the dog population. We saw lots of cats in Italy whenever we visited there. Maybe they should try the same thing as Athens in regards to dogs.
The Dogs of Athens
The stray dogs of Athens, like all dogs, gravitate toward people I went to Athens to forget about my dog. Of course, I know that's impossible, but I didn't expect so many four-legged reminders of my recent and painful loss. I had read that Athens had a problem with stray dogs, but it wasn't u...
Yeah, I found it to be true for many places that I moved to. Ironically, when I moved to England I really started to love it after just a few months, as soon as the weather got better and most importantly, when the days got longer. So seasons have a lot to do with it.
Six Months On: Still Waiting To Bloom
Yesterday as I sat on the train, waiting for it to leave the station, I said to my husband, "I hate living here!" We were late for a lunch date, and as is typical on a weekend, the trains were running 20 minutes apart, sometimes longer. It wasn't just the trains, of course. It was everything....
Tara, I never even considered it was an "older" thing, lol! But you do have a point--I get more and more rooted to my habits the older I get. Love the familiar, you know what I mean?
And thanks for buying Temptation! The research was fascinating, and of course there was much more than I could ever fit in one book. They are definitely a study in contrasts, and everything you think you know about the Amish is not necessarily true, I found. And, conveniently for me as an author, I learned that each congregation makes its own rules as to what's allowed, not allowed, so I could just make up what I needed to for my convenience!
Six Months On: Still Waiting To Bloom
Yesterday as I sat on the train, waiting for it to leave the station, I said to my husband, "I hate living here!" We were late for a lunch date, and as is typical on a weekend, the trains were running 20 minutes apart, sometimes longer. It wasn't just the trains, of course. It was everything....
At least the ice is beginning to melt today!
Six Months On: Still Waiting To Bloom
Yesterday as I sat on the train, waiting for it to leave the station, I said to my husband, "I hate living here!" We were late for a lunch date, and as is typical on a weekend, the trains were running 20 minutes apart, sometimes longer. It wasn't just the trains, of course. It was everything....
Oh yes, being able to pop to the local shop--that's another thing I miss. We often took the dog up to Tesco, my husband waiting outside with him while I shopped then he'd help me carry the groceries back. It was good practice for Sparky, teaching him to wait for me without going nuts. Never got to the point where he could wait outside by himself, like we did (occasionally) with our other dog.
Things I Miss About England, Enumerated
A walk in Black Park Someone asked me what I missed most about England, a question that seems impossible to quantify. I miss National Trust properties, but I also miss the walks, and I miss Black Park a little more than I miss Burnham Beeches, but I'd give anything to walk through my Common an...
One of the reasons we picked this house over others was the neighborhood, which isn't just a series of cul-de-sacs off a main street off a busier street. You can actually walk in a circle here, though the options aren't as many as back home in England. There are no public footpaths connecting streets the way there would be there, and the property along the river is all private, no trespassing, which is an odd concept after being able to walk anywhere along rivers in England.
Things I Miss About England, Enumerated
A walk in Black Park Someone asked me what I missed most about England, a question that seems impossible to quantify. I miss National Trust properties, but I also miss the walks, and I miss Black Park a little more than I miss Burnham Beeches, but I'd give anything to walk through my Common an...
I haven't noticed--they were lying out in the woods for several days, so maybe that washed the smell off. Sparky seemed to avoid the first one for a while, but when I put peanut butter in it he's okay with it. I really need to avoid letting him leave them out there from now on--I don't want any rabies carrying raccoons in my yard!
New World Problems
Sparky keeps an eye out for squirrels, not realizing the real danger is from raccoons. Or, Further Adventures in Repatriation. There are no raccoons in Britain. And in southern England, our deer were small, about the size of the average dog, and they didn't jump over the fence and eat my hosta...
They probably do, however, I'm used to finding them at the supermarkets that were just a 15 minute walk from home. Finding a farmer's market (which I guess are seasonal) probably means driving a ways. The local supermarkets all carry the same three kinds: Idaho, red, and gold. I think, in general, the supermarkets there had better choices, not just of potatoes but of lots of "gourmet" items. Last night I made paella with the last of my paella rice, which I bought at Tesco. I bet I'll have to go to a specialty store to find it here. OTOH, I can easily find chipotle peppers :)
New World Problems
Sparky keeps an eye out for squirrels, not realizing the real danger is from raccoons. Or, Further Adventures in Repatriation. There are no raccoons in Britain. And in southern England, our deer were small, about the size of the average dog, and they didn't jump over the fence and eat my hosta...
I will have to check that out. Thanks, Avelino.
New World Problems
Sparky keeps an eye out for squirrels, not realizing the real danger is from raccoons. Or, Further Adventures in Repatriation. There are no raccoons in Britain. And in southern England, our deer were small, about the size of the average dog, and they didn't jump over the fence and eat my hosta...
I never got into the apps or sat navs; mostly I just memorized the way and blundered through! But I still have lots of Chilterns books. The thing missing from the apps is the lovely descriptions of the things you see on the walks, like "this house is where George III came to visit his friend" (and then realizing that you came THAT CLOSE to leasing that house. Oh well. Hope to get back soon and take some walks.
There's Nothing Sadder Than a Box of Maps
Some of my best memories involve maps. I opened another box to unpack today, ready to put away or throw away what was inside (I've decided to get rid of unnecessary clutter while I unpack) and I realized I'd just opened a Pandora's box. It was my maps, maps of London, the UK, Europe, and, most...
There's one near here, near Mt Vernon, and one day we saw someone trying to enter it in the wrong lane. Fortunately no one got smashed. The only time I've had to stop and think before entering is when I'm driving in Europe, where the roundabouts go in a different direction from the UK, so it's a bit disconcerting at first.
Living in America Is Driving Me Crazy
Those Romans clearly knew what they were on about, with not one but five roundabouts on the way to Cirencester. I love to drive. In England, I always volunteered to do the driving if anyone was organizing an outing, especially if newcomers were coming along. Most Americans have difficulty dri...
I will have to give honeycrisps another go. I think you are one of the Americans who told me about them, that summer...
Man, I miss England! When you graduate we need to get over there and do some more traveling.
Okay, that is possibly the wine talking, but if not, we should really do that.
Pros and Cons: Vegan Food in America vs the UK
All the apple products are getting bigger, including this Fuji, next to a two-pence coin for comparison. I've been here more than three weeks, enough time to have formed an impression, albeit a sketchy, deer-in-the-headlights one. There are some things I like about this part of America, a reg...
Yeah, I read an article recently that talked about the total absence of any acknowledgement of slaves on plantations. Like they'd been airbrushed out of history.
Sulgrave Manor: George Washington Was (Not) Here
Sulgrave Manor, with the flags of Great Britain and the United States of America flying on opposite ends. It seemed appropriate that our last outing to the English countryside, before we repatriate to America, would be to the ancestral home of the first president of the United States. George ...
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