LOL I have to admit - I'm a buyer... One of dd's favorite things to do is pick out her cupcakes or cake at the store. Now, for family cake we go all out - she can pick ANY cake she sees in the bakery at the grocery store... Now that she's a teen, though, it's getting a bit scary how fancy and Expensive the cakes she picks out are. Kind of like my dad complaining - he used to let us pick out where we wanted our birthday dinner. Said it was great when we were little and picked McDonalds. Not so much later when we picked places like Red Lobster... lol