I fully agree. People do tend to do things that may be hurtful or inapproriate but they don't do it intentionally. Since we can't read minds, we need to have these kind of meaningful discussions. Great Post!!! :)

Right! See if I were there we could've cuddled up in a blanket together, sipping on hot chocolate or something *sad face* lol

You know I'm in a miles apart relationship myself and I do think that it's good for us not see each other so much. We spent dang near everyday together for months before he had to leave LoL time apart really does make the heart grow fonder. I can't lie though, it does get hard & I miss him like crazy & can't hardly wait to see him again hahaha Great Blog Entry Lady!

Wow! This truly pulled, tugged, and yanked at my heart strings. I'm incredibly sorry for the loss you had to experience. It's true, we are all adults and our advice can only go so far. Thank you for sharing this. Your writing is amazing.

"I don't know why big stars try and do things that normal people do. Don't they know that people will snap pics, and follow them?" I agree with you totally on this. That's how I feel about stars who get irritated about getting their pic taken or being asked for autographs. Dude, you guys chose that lifestyle/occupation. Famous people could've chosen any job but they wanted to entertain so deal with what comes with fame.

Awesome! I told you, you can write and keep people engaged in your work. I honestly cannot wait to see how you bring part two together. Complete Admiration My Dear. Love It and Love You!!! Show your obstacles who's boss LoL

Can I get an Amen? Amen! This is so true. I have had many people (family, friends, strangers) tell me that I have great talents and that i am going to be a huge success. But, I have yet to open up my gifts and wear them. I havn't shown off my talents so that they could be recognized. No longer will I sit and allow the things I imagine to fall by the wayside. Starting now, I am going to broadcast the gifts that God has given me & making money off of them won't hurt LoL. And as far as church is concerned, I hear you! Hypocrits will definitely confuse you & drive you away. But, then I'm always asked, "Well, you don't go to church for the people anyway right? You're supposed to go to meet God." But then I say, "Can't I meet God in my home, my car, my school, my job?" He's everywhere right? Anyway, just a thought. Great entry Mr. Frazier.

You make a good point yet again. Once we are grown boyfriend/girlfriend should be replaced since we are no longer boys nor girls. I especially like the part where you said "labels only hurt a relationship if you allow it to". I feel the same way. Just because we make it official doesn't mean our fun & the way we interact with each other has to suffer. Grade A stuff lady!

This is Truly awesome! I feel exactly the same. Why hold on to things/people from the past when they can hinder something good in your future? Sometimes as hard as it may be, or scary for that matter, we need to learn when it is time to let go and move forward. Doesn't mean we care for their well being any more or any less. Some people come into our lives just for a season to either teach us or to be taught by us. I especially enjoyed the part where you said, "if you continue to except your past as your future it's like saying you're no better than that." No matter what we may have done or been through in the past, I think that everyone should have a chance at forgiveness & happiness at some point in their lives. Our futures deserve a fighting chance. And that can be applied to all aspects of life, not just love. Well said miss Richards!!!

I Agree! Well Said!!!

Did you make this up? I dig it!!! This is proof that men have deep feelings about relationships as well. And yes the application process is hard and long LoL but necessary and worth it. Also, you already have the Queen's key my love. This was informative and very pleasant to read. Keep flying high Superman!

WoW! This is an awesome entry. As long as you, Alec, and God know how great of a man and father you are striving to be that's all that matters. And her wanting to change Alec's last name to her husband's is outright selfish and it's a low key shot at you. If she don't KNOCK IT OFF!!! Anyway, I pray for you and your boy every night and I'm glad you got the opportunity to show him who his father really is. Love You! Great Entry!

That's terrible about the COKE!!! lol And don't get discouraged because you know you are destined for greatness. But this was good for your first official blog my dear. can't wait for the next one.

Well Said Miss Lady!

(Standing Up and Clapping My Hands) Yes, I feel the same way. People are getting married for vain reasons. They don't realize that there's more to a person than looks and good sex.

You hit the nail on the head miss lady! It's like what I tell my friends who come to me for advice, "Hold on, if you feel that it is worth holding on to". Everyone should get a second chance. that's not to say that you won't feel pain but, we're all only human. Oh, and yes we should guest blog for each other that would be really nice. I enjoy your work as well. Later! :-)