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Building Bears. Building a Business.
A few weeks ago I was invited to attend a brand-building conference hosted by the nice folks at Build-a-Bear Workshop. As it turns out, I am so glad it jived with our family's schedule because it's one of the best events I've attended! I, along with about 20 other bloggers from the midwest, w...
Shut up! People had parties for kindergarten graduation? Hmmm, come to think of it I think we had cake for my son LOL we are a reward motivated society.
Congratulations Graduate?
I am officially the parent of a kindergarten graduate. At the graduation ceremony, several of the moms were there with Kleenex in hand, already breaking down in tears before the ceremony even started. Wait. Back up. What? Yep, the moms were in tears before the kindergarten graduation ceremony ...
As a mom of two that I've sent off to college, this post made me cry. Bittersweet moments for sure, your job as mom is almost done but the worries are not over.
Parenting Deadline
As a writer, I justify my procrastination habit by claiming that I thrive under deadline pressure. But there is a pressing deadline looming large on my horizon that has me hyperventilating: my daughter is going off to college for the first time at the end of the summer. That's right, I have f...
Martha Spoke to Me
It took a recent episode of my grandson's favorite TV show, Martha Speaks, to finally understand a little better the frustration my mother might have felt in the early 80's when she, in one fell swoop, disposed of my entire... Continue reading
Posted Jun 13, 2010 at Chicago Moms Blog
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You made a wise choice, Chicago sport's championships are few and far between. We all stayed up late to watch and it was worth every minute of OT!
Bedtimes and Blackhawks
My husband and I have always insisted on early bedtimes for our children. These days, for example, my three year old -- who has recently sworn off his afternoon nap -- is in bed by 7 pm, and my six year old turns her light off at 8:15 pm. We stick to this schedule pretty religiously regardle...
Grrrrr
Parking for Kindergarten
Most nights the parking lot sits empty, teachers, administrators and staff gone hours before. But one night last week the lot was full and we were over $300 closer to full day kindergarten. CPS budgets for next year allot for only half day kindergarten, two and a half hours, as compared to the...
I could have written that post and substituted children for in-laws. I just don't think my adult children would get it, so it's a deep dark secret. So far.
Blog World and Real World: What happens when they collide for Mom?
Ok, ok... Stop me if you've heard this one before... "So my in-laws walked into my blog..." No really, they did. A blog about them. (eek!) The post (in my opinion) was mild... in theirs? not exactly. So what is the punch line? ... Drama ensued... and that is no joke. Making the decision to...
Been there, done that, hypothetically of course.
hypothetically speaking...
Hypothetically, if our family had to deal with a case of lice, it might just feel like the worst thing in the world. Panic might set in at the thought of bugs crawling all over our furniture, our bedding, stuffed animals, jackets, not to mention all 6 of our heads. Hypothetically, how does on...
It must have been painful for you to share your story and even more painful to live it. I hope that your speaking out helps other parents. Good luck to you.
No more drugs!! Reclaiming my child from his addiction.
Two months ago I reclaimed my child, my baby boy. Well, not so much a baby anymore, but he'll always be my baby. Tyler is sixteen years old and for the last two years he was lost to us. He was addicted to drugs. Drugs we chose for him. Drugs we bought for him. Drugs we reminded him to take- ev...
Raising hand and waving frantically. I'm ready to jump back into PTO after a lengthy hiatus.
PTOs Don't Scare Me Anymore
Almost four years ago, I walked into my very first PTO meeting, not knowing anyone - having been at the preschool for a day - and feeling really confused. I walked out not really sure of what had been accomplished in the meeting and still not really knowing many people, wondering if the PTO wa...
I was terribly disappointed with the ending :(
A life without LOST
I'm pretty sure that even those that are unfamiliar with the show know that the ABC series "LOST" ended last week. The finale wasn't just one final show, but rather a two and a half hour episode, sandwiched between a one hour Lost retrospective and a special Lost-themed Jimmy Kimmel Live. Oh,...
Ahhhhh Memorial Day Weekend
Summer doesn't officially arrive in Chicago until Monday June 21st, but for all practical purposes, summer begins this weekend. At long last, the 90 days that we Chicagoans can spend really enjoying the out of doors without the fear of... Continue reading
Posted May 29, 2010 at Chicago Moms Blog
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Yesterday was my grandson's last day of preschool, summer is here, but nothing is going to slow down. I think we all need to remember to slow down and breathe.
Heading for the finish line
This time of year always feels like the final hill of the marathon, and I sure do hope the hug lady with the blanket and the medal is waiting for me, because this school year has been one hard road race with tough weather and lousy roads. This for us is the last Monday of the last full week ...
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Staying Connected
The older I get, the more people I know, the harder it is to stay connected — even to people I've known my entire life and love very much. It's hard to say exactly what happens: we get busy; our lives are crowded with people, activities, chores and events; we move far away; we have families o...
I think we all wish for what we don't have. I wish there were more places I could walk to with the kids so I didn't have to go through the hassle of wrangling them into the car.
What I would do for a drive-thru
Our city life affords us lots of opportunities to walk. When the weather is nice, we frequently leave the car in the garage and hoof it around our neighborhood. I put the baby in a stroller, the kids hop in their bikes, and we are off to take care of business. We can walk to the market, dry ...
I am around small children all day every day and often the behavior I see when parents return is appalling. It makes me wonder who these kids are because I don't tolerate it EVER. A crying baby is completely different from an out of control preschooler. I've often said there are no bad kids, just bad parents. And no my children were far from perfect, but I knew what I could expect from them and didn't put myself in a situation where I knew they couldn't be on their best behavior until I knew they could be. So yes, if parents are inattentive to their child while the child has a major meltdown or is behaving in an unacceptable manner, you can bet I will judge. But the mom at Jewel buying milk with her 3 toddlers just before nap time who looks like she needs a stiff drink, nahhh, she's just having a bad day.
Inept parents on No-Flying lists now?
Ok, I am aghast. Seriously? Parents with fussy kids are being considered inept. People are judging and categorizing parents now if the child is not on their best behavior. This article in CNN went in elaborate lengths about how there are three different types of parenting: 'My child can do no ...
Common sense and common courtesy dictate that you should refer to a person by the name that you were introduced to them with. Unfortunately neither one is prevalent in our society. My former MIL, when she wasn't referring to me as Ruth,(just ignorance) called me Reets. Drove me batshit crazy and may or may not have been one of the reasons I left her son.
I Named Him; You Don't Get To
When I was pregnant with the wee ones, I pored over the baby name books. I knew nothing of the child that was growing inside me, but boy or girl, I knew I was going to love the wee one. I would find a name I loved and write it in a notebook, comparing the name to how it fit with a potential fi...
I dunno, I'm not sold on the iPad just yet. Does it snuggle well on a window seat under a blanket as a soft rain falls outside? Where do you put the bookmark?
The Day The Book Box Died
Back when my nearly six-year-old daughter Lucy was born, I had the cleverest of ideas. I began collecting books that I wanted her to read at different stages of her young adult life. Each book was placed lovingly into a green box with a Post-It™ note affixed to the book’s cover telling Lucy at...
No one wants to take responsibility because it's easier to blame someone else. A little boy is dead and sadly another victim of drunk driving will soon follow. It just breaks my heart. There needs to be a better way.
Imagining a Better Way
Imagine this. Imagine that you're driving your car home from a party. Your boyfriend is in the passenger seat. Your five-year-old son is in the backseat, sleeping in a booster seat. Imagine that you get pulled over by a police officer because you made an improper turn without signaling. D...
Just wait until you reach peri-menopause brain. Similar to Mommy Brain only 10 times worse.
You Do the Math. No, Really, You Do It.
Mommy Brain. What is it about that statement that makes me so bothered? It's not like having kids makes you stupid - right? Right? From the time I got pregnant, right on up 'til today, whenever I goof on a bit of simple addition or mix up the continent Trinidad is closest to - people autom...
Really? Really? Less than a month ago a man in CA was arrested for being a sex offender and driving an ice cream truck. He also didn't have a vendor's license. Do we really know WHO the ice cream man is? Or when he last washed his hands? I realize that it could happen at the grocery store too, but it just creeps me out a teeny tiny bit. OK a lot.
The Ice Cream Truck
Growing up in Logan Square, a child of the 60's, I have fond memories of chasing the Ice Cream Truck. Even though the Good Humor truck played a similar tune, it was always a great disappointment for me. It had to be soft serve. My mother had a weakness for the refreshing soft serve vanilla con...
I had no idea that this gem is so close to my own back yard. Thanks for the info, we'll definitely plan a trip soon.
Proof that Mother Nature Reclaims Her Space
When we moved to the Southwest suburbs, we found a lot of hidden gems. One of our favorites is the Lake Katherine Nature Center and Botanic Gardens in Palos Heights. I have to admit that part of the appeal is the back story. Lake Katherine was a dump at one time. It was literally a place we...
My mother composted before it was chic. She saved all the scraps of the day and carried them into the yard where she buried them in her garden. A little motion of a sturdy shovel to mix it in with the topsoil and we always had the biggest bestest tomatoes and prettiest flowers on the block.
I line dry inside too, always afraid of bird poop on my clean stuff LOL
I So Want To Go Green
Earth Day was last week, and Mister Man (my kindergarten son) had an assignment for the past seven days to track what he did to help the environment. He had to mark each day that he recycled, planted seeds, wore green, turned off lights, and picked up garbage. He did pretty well. It wasn't to...
My 'tainted' bottle of infant Tylenol is marked 'for Hospital/Government Use Only'. Leftover from my grandson's circumcision a few months ago, for which my daughter, via her insurance company, was charged $122 for non prescription drugs. That part makes me even more angry than the recall itself, $122 for a half ounce of Tylenol! We trust the pharmaceutical companies to provide us with safe remedies and I understand that mistakes can be made, but it's more than unsettling to me. The what ifs running through my head make me want to scream.
The Recall Made Me Recall
Like many parents and caregivers, I read the news of the McNeil product recall, went straight to my medicine cabinet to grab my bottles and checked the NCD numbers against the online list. Sure enough, all three of them were recalled. The McNeil Consumer Healthcare recall includes several comm...
Don't feel guilty for the choices you make for your kids, if they're not the best choices it's nothing that years of therapy won't fix down the road. I kid, I kid.
Programming Our Kids
As I stood at the corner of the playground with all the other parents, watching our kiddos play, I knew the conversation was eventually going to get to me... "What are you doing with your kiddos for the summer?" I fully understand that in many households, both parents work. The idea that you wo...
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