I say go with whatever you want. I have always had a massive amount of hair. I never once waxed. I was a little curious so gave it a go. Having never seen it done and never having it done I did it myself. WOW. It hurt like everything and came out messy but livable. He loved it and our bedroom life shot through the roof. But more than that I like it. I feel so different and clean I'm glad I did. It is so hard though. I also have a new little girl and have had the same thoughts but I feel if I talk to her then we will be fine... I hope.