Jessica and Jeff, I read this with a sinking heart and a desperate wish for your health and happiness. You are both such bright lights. I will be thinking of you and your family and sending love and hope.

Erika, I'm sad to hear it's been hard lately. I know it's really difficult having a toddler and an infant; every friend I know who's been there has had her moments. I know that doesn't make it much easier. But I do know you are a wonderful mother and your children are very lucky to grow up in your loving home. You know how to, as you said in your post, just BE, with them, and with yourself as a mother and a person. Despite the healthcare madness, despite the stress, despite everything. I admire you and I thank you for sharing yourself here. Much love, jen