You really understand what love is when you are a military wife. My husband has been gone for 10 months now and my love and apprication for him only grows stronger each and everyday. Most girls dream of a hero, I am lucky enough to have married mine. I saw Dear John today and it is now my favorite movie. I can identify with many feelings and emotions in the film. My solider is the love of my life and I can't wait til he is home again.