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Ravens
Ottawa
Photographer, writer, grandfather, graffiti mural promoter, social activist
Interests: current affairs, writing, fiction, grandkids, quality assurance, photography, graffiti, social activism, urban art, graffiti murals
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Conqueror - Paris - 9.4km
Posted Mar 22, 2023 at Raven's View
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Conqueror - Paris - 7.9km
Posted Mar 21, 2023 at Raven's View
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Conqueror -Paris -4.8km
Posted Mar 20, 2023 at Raven's View
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Conqueror- Paris- 3.7km
Posted Mar 19, 2023 at Raven's View
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Conqueror - Paris - 1.8km
Posted Mar 18, 2023 at Raven's View
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Conqueror - Paris - 0 km
Posted Mar 17, 2023 at Raven's View
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RP - Too much freedom.
Posted Mar 1, 2023 at Raven's View
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RP - So many choices, so little time.
Posted Dec 9, 2022 at Raven's View
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RP - Sharing the Land
Posted Nov 6, 2022 at Raven's View
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RP - Royalty in Canada
Posted Nov 6, 2022 at Raven's View
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RP - Freedom, and Frustration
Posted Nov 6, 2022 at Raven's View
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RP - Balance in the Media
Posted Sep 13, 2022 at Raven's View
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RP -Northward Bound
Posted Sep 13, 2022 at Raven's View
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RP - Facebook Alternative?
Posted Sep 13, 2022 at Raven's View
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Will - I think part of the hurt is that that they acted in a way that you did not expect. You had an image of them, the relationship, their assumed behaviour, a trust as it were. Then they acted differently in a hurtful way. Part of your process in dealing with that, call it healing. forgiveness, whatever, is realizing your worth as a person has not been diminished, that it's the other that changed. And now what? Hopefully their apology will indicate if this was a momentary lapse, or a real flaw that was there, and what their future behaviour is likely to be. And then you need to decide what your new relationship with them will be like - if any.
When is an apology not an apology?
TL;DR - When it's all about you. (Note - edited Aug 19) When you say your behaviour is inexcusable, then offer up excuses, refusing to accept responsibility. When you apologize, then expect the other person to do their part and pardon/forgive you. When your motivation, and any regrets you fe...
Ontario Election 2022
Ontario Election 2022 - not a surprise? Apparently that's what we wanted, no surprises, stay the course, better the devil you know, ya-da ya-da. Ford peddled a Goldilocks pablum, not too far left, not too far right, just comfortably in the middle. Whether that's what we actually get will be... Continue reading
Posted Jun 3, 2022 at Raven's View
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Edit- Gregor kept changing his name to Boris - I fixed that.
The Trio
Well, it's been a while, but here's another Flash Fiction Friday offering. This one took a bit longer than the normal week - several, in fact. I'm trying to relax a bit and write without constant self-editing and the accompanying procrastination. Could be better, I'm sure, constructive criticism...
Friday 29/04/2022 #48 Retry - Don't Look at the Moon
Posted Apr 29, 2022 at Flash Fiction Friday
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Very late - but done!
https://www.mikeyoung.ca/2022/04/the-trio.html
Friday 18/03/2022 #47 -Characters and stress
It's been a while since I wrote something, other than a lot of posts on The Facebook and The Twitter. I'm not sure why, but I'll try again. This was a story idea I had back in November of 2019, as I considered the upcoming stress many feel over Christmas. Ah, those stress free pre-COVID days!...
The Trio
Well, it's been a while, but here's another Flash Fiction Friday offering. This one took a bit longer than the normal week - several, in fact. I'm trying to relax a bit and write without constant self-editing and the accompanying procrastination. Could be better, I'm sure, constructive criticism is welcome.... Continue reading
Posted Apr 29, 2022 at Mike Young
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The purpose of an apology is to show the other person that you are sorry that your actions/words hurt them. Your hope is that the apology reduces their hurt, but it may not. I can't see where lying would help - you mean just lie that you are sorry when you are not?
When is an apology not an apology?
TL;DR - When it's all about you. (Note - edited Aug 19) When you say your behaviour is inexcusable, then offer up excuses, refusing to accept responsibility. When you apologize, then expect the other person to do their part and pardon/forgive you. When your motivation, and any regrets you fe...
When is an apology not an apology?
Posted Apr 1, 2022 at Raven's View
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Friday 18/03/2022 #47 -Characters and stress
Posted Mar 18, 2022 at Flash Fiction Friday
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Conqueror Virtual Challenge - Berlin Wall
Posted Feb 8, 2022 at Raven's View
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I'm amazed there's that much standing, in the midst of all that relentless jungle. They did an outstanding job of uncovering and preserving it.
Conqueror Virtual Challenge - Angkor Wat
TL;DR -Time to get moving again. I really like this site, and want to get back into the challenges. The locations are from around the world, often with amazing sights to explore via Google Streetview. The Facebook community is awesome, support desk is fast, and such cool medals once you finish....
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