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OH!!! This makes me so sad!!! Wish I could've been there...we could've been like the Wonder Twins, pushing our rings together to "activate" our super cool and social powers. Truth be told, I wouldn't have even walked into that party, so kudos to you!!!
Rockettes, Broadway Songs and Invisibility Cloaks
After taking a three-hour bus ride that included about 4,763 unpredictable lurches, bumps, drops and turns, and then a 15 minute cab ride that was more of the same, I arrived at the New York Hilton for BlogHer on Thursday feeling nauseated to the extreme and with a migraine that was threatening ...
I'm thinking that people would forgive hairy armpits and legs after surgery...regardless, I know I shouldn't be laughing, but seriously, "Go go gadgets arms?" Hysterical!!!!! Call me!
Crazy Jacuzzi Baths & Unveiling Eve
This last week has not been an easy one. Mr. BBM ended up taking three days off of work instead of one. I simply wasn't able to get out of bed for the first two days much at all. There was a lot more pain and discomfort than I thought I was going to have. The third day wasn't much better. However...
I'm so sorry,BBM, that I can't be there with you and that I haven't been there over the past couple of weeks. Seems a bit unfair that life handed me some more crap at a time when you need me to help you with your crap. :( I'm so sorry...
Restoration
I don't think I've ever gone this long without writing. It's not like me. I always have a lot to say. Lately though, I don't. I'm in a holding pattern in several ways and it's been frustrating to say the least. When I went to see my new orthopaedic surgeon back in April, he sent me for a series...
Sigh...we're in the same place it seems...I wrote a similar post yesterday. I think you'll find that once this next round of knee stuff is over, you will discover you haven't really changed as much as you think you did. You've just had to put "you" on hold. A weekend together will help, I have no doubt. :)
Own Worst Enemy
Three years ago, if you asked me "Who are you?" I could tell you easily. I had a strong sense of self and knew who I was. Today, not so much. Growing up, I was extremely athletic. I had no interest in television. I only wanted to play with the boys, whether it was kickball, baseball, softball o...
Sigh...so sorry to hear about all of this. Hey, for the MRI, make sure to ask for something to relax you. Did they do that the last time? I would ask-it will help! Call me tomorrow to let me know how things go.
The Knee Saga is Now a Trilogy
I don't know what I was expecting today when I went to see this new surgeon. It wasn't what I got; that's for sure. He spent over an hour with me, going over my other surgeon's notes, asking me questions, examining my knees (both of them) like I don't think they've ever been before. When all was...
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I told Remodel Man that I'm going to stop looking out the window because every time I do, our front street is covered again. I really enjoyed this blizzard the first five days-now? I'm over it.
RG
Buried
I haven't been blogging much at all. In fact, I haven't been doing much of anything blog or martial arts related lately. The screw in my knee is protruding more and more and I need to make an appointment soon. I just am delaying entering back into that world of knee crap again. I don't want to g...
You might want to consider getting a snowblower at the end of the season. Oh, and perhaps a new husband, too...
A Snowy Public Service Announcement
All week long, Mr. BBM was warning me that my birthday plans for tonight were going to be ruined. They called for a foot of snow but I wasn't buying it. "It will probably only be a couple inches," I told him. However, when I woke up this morning there was an insane amount of snow. Still, ...
Ah ha! I know what I'm doing wrong now...I'm not abusive and I don't smoke! So that's why I can't have a baby. It's all so clear now!!!!!
Chuckie Disease
Today I went to Chuckie Cheese with Lil C, and another Mom and daughter. We were having a nice lunch and getting ready to play when an extremely pregnant woman and her young son walked in. I normally wouldn't even take notice, but it was kind of hard not to notice this particular woman (if you c...
Sigh...no comment...
Twi-Curious
I feel like it's semi-necessary for me to explain myself. I should preface it by saying this: one of the very first dates I went on with Mr. BBM, back when we were in school at Pitt, was to the movie theater in Squirrel Hill to watch "Interview with a Vampire." We walked home after that movie, ...
Thought not your resolution, I use that In-Shower Moisturinse from Oil of Olay-I've been using it for years and it works great to keep you moisturized. Try it!
I have been thinking on my own resolutions...lots of them, but one of ours is the same-to be a better mom. Always a good one to have because we can always work at being better at that. I'll call you soon to hear how things are!!!
Goodbye 2009
2009 was a pretty fantastic year up until December. It marked a year of getting to know my amazing neighborhood as we came out from hibernation in the spring of 2009 and embarked on a fun spring, summer and fall of play dates, parties, and all around good times. 2009 was also the year that I fi...
I've said everything to you already, but just wanted to comment here, too. I'm so sad for you, Mr. BBM and the girls. Colby was my favorite (no offense, Bear!-besides being such a strikingly beautiful cat, he reminds me so much of Emily and was a gentle soul. (Bear, on the other hand, is so much like Zack!!) I'm here if you need me...
Not the Christmas I had Imagined
I can't remember a Christmas morning as nice and fun as ours was this year. When the family arrived, we took turns opening gifts instead of having it be a free for all. It was so much more relaxed. It was really nice. It was overshadowed a bit by my cat Colby, being sick. When we came home from...
Uh, so this is what you wanted to talk to me about? Brilliant! They do this at Builder Boy's preschool, but I'm thinking it would be nice to have at home...I hope Borders has it!!!
A Dash of Elf Magic
For the past week, for whatever reason, Lil C has been a total bear. The normal bedtime routine went from being simple to a two hour marathon. She wasn't feeling well, but it was getting a little ridiculous. Then, she got into my make-up after she got into her own play make-up that she smeared a...
Sorry about the hit and run part of your holiday. It's certainly not like that at my in-laws-imagine a giant, chaotic party that no one leaves. It's a total blast, if you don't mind the chaos-which I don't. Now, if my family could just feel better before we fly out on Monday to Disney, that would be helpful! :)
Hit and Run Thanksgiving
It happens every holiday: Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter. . . My Mom or I slave in the kitchen and then people arrive, usually late. They grab a plate, eat, and within two hours tops, they are gone. The majority of the clean-up is left behind. My sister and her boyfriend have to hit both famil...
I'd file a complaint, too, with the BBB. I think you can do that online now. It's good to file a dispute with the credit card company-they can do wonders for situations like this! Good luck!
L.A. Fitness is like Hotel California
I cancelled my gym membership at L.A. Fitness in September. My membership expired on 11/14. Yet today and last month, L.A. Fitness charged me for the Kid Klub. Someone explain to me why I would still have a Kid Klub membership when I'm not even a member at the club myself. Mr. BBM saw the charg...
Wow...no wonder you didn't call me back. Hope tomorrow is better!
Fruit, Stale Chocolate and Total Crap-No Really
I knew it was going to be one of those days when Mr. BBM sprayed Big I's hair with detangler right onto my arm and in the direction of my bagel. The smell of that detangler in all its fruity-non-goodness makes me hold my breath each morning when I spritz Big I. I was already irritated. But when ...
Glad it turned out how you wanted it. This is how you wanted it, right? ;)
When Heels and Nylons Save the Day
Yesterday was the election for the board of directors at my country club, which is actually more like a swimming club that happens to have a clubhouse. There were five available positions and nine candidates. Some of the candidates running for election have been members of the club longer than I...
Ha! Too cute! Now if I had done that to Builder Boy, he would have been so mad at me. He does not like to be tricked. Glad she took it so well!
Of Skeletons and Creative Thinking
A couple weeks ago, I bought adorable Halloween pajamas for Lil C. They are pink and when worn in the dark, you can see a glow in the dark skeleton, complete with a sparkly pink heart. They're adorable and more importantly, the kid really needed some new pajamas. I brought them home and was so ...
Happy Anniversary, you two! The comfort of a marriage can be so much better than the anxiety of dating. Hope you have a peaceful night!
Eleven Years: Then and Now
It's 6:05 p.m. on my 11th wedding anniversary. Eleven years ago, I was just arriving at my reception. The weather had been in the 70's all day long and it had been an amazing day. Today, I've just emerged from the shower. Instead of getting dressed to go to a nice restaurant for a quiet di...
Wait, you mean my son should be brushing his teeth?!?! ;)
We used to have some huge battles in our house about the teeth brushing and our first few trips to the dentist involved only the counting of teeth. Now, though, we've made it such a part of the bedtime/wake up routine, he does it without a second thought.
Sonicare for Kids
This is a compensated review from Sonicare for Kids and BlogHer. I'll be honest. I always thought that the people who spent mucho dinero on toothbrushes that came in a box were insane. I mean, the dentist gives you a free one every six months. What did I need with one of those crazy Sonicare too...
I'm so proud of you! You're doing what you're good at-teaching!!
All the Answers or Not
After the day I had yesterday, I knew I had to go to karate last night. I needed to punch and kick and get my frustrations at the world out. I tried to tell myself I should stay home and take care of Big I, who is home sick for the second day in a row; but then I realized that Mr. BBM is perfect...
I have decided that I cannot let you leave your house-not even into your own backyard! ;) Geez, I can't believe this story. People can be so horrible, can't they?! Kudos to you and the other two guys!
The Audacity of People
As I was driving home from campus today, I witnessed a hit and run at a busy intersection. A woman and her young daughter were crossing a busy street, when a woman came screaming around the corner, making a left turn, right into the woman. I was the first car in line to turn right and it was rig...
Ha! Builder Boy would love this conversation!! Too funny.
On Pooping Animals
After spending some time around some very large horses this weekend at a Family Fall festival, Lil C told me she might like to switch her Halloween costume from a mermaid to a horse or maybe a camel. As we were brainstorming how we could create such a costume, I told her she would have to carry ...
Looks great!! LOVE the starfish bowl! That would work for a Spong.eBo.b party, too. Great job, BBM.
No one has said anything about the Mr. BBM and whipped cream comment? Really? Clearly Karl or Avitable have not read this yet... :)
Mermaid Cookies & Under the Sea Fun
Tonight I'm taking my Mom out for dinner and a movie, but I didn't want another post to go by without sharing Lil C's birthday with you. I imagine it must be difficult to visualize airplane cookies turning into mermaids, but I swear they did. Here's the photographic evidence. Here's some of ...
The problem is, of course, so much more complex than changing the way we teach. I am in the trenches for students of all abilities. I don't put up with a lot of crap, but I am also flexible in the classroom. The child who fails continually is used to failure. It is their norm-if you show that child even their smallest success, this potentially motivate the student. It could potentially change the way they view their own education. Perhaps this could be viewed as spoon feeding, but to me, it's a teaching method. Sometimes it works and that's great; other times, it doesn't, so you change things up yet again.
With NCLB, everyone is scrambling to get the skills covered that are on the tests...not ideal, but expected now. That doesn't leave very much time for teaching other materials that could be as beneficial, if not more so. (Although I have a whole philosophy about "teaching to the test"-I'll save that for my own blog.)
But the biggest reason that education went to all that "feel good BS" (my loving term for it)? Parents. Many parents want you to spoon feed their kid. They don't care about learning, they care about the grade (yet another blog post...grades...). Let's face it, it's hard as parents to see our kids upset. Nowaways, instead of telling our kids, "Oh well. You figure out how to deal with it" we try to fix it for them. We call the teacher. We pressure (intentionally or unintentionally) the teacher and many teachers bend. If they don't bend, the principal is called in. Blah.
It is so complicated. It is so much more than an easy fix. Our society has grown into this. And while I fault parents, I see myself doing some of the same things as a parent that I despise in the parents of the kids I teach. Sorry to ramble on...it's a touchy subject.
Oh, and I agree with Avitable, too. It's not an easy transition even with the perfect education. Some handle it better than others. Remember I told you it's the "13th grade." ;)
Get Rid of the Warm and Fuzzies
Last week, I had a student skip his scheduled speech date. In order to pass the class, students must give all speeches. I also don't allow late assignments. So when he came in my class and asked what he should do about it, I had a decision to make. I happen to like this kid and think he has gre...
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