I was a Catholic for 25 years, went to Catholic school, altar server who wasn't raped, whole nine yards. Also gay, so I got really hurt by the Church when they said it was gay priests who raped kids, really destroyed my self-esteem for years. I have already done the therapy and cleared this up, I'm not putting money in their troughs to defend these pedophiles, so is there a certain point where I can let this sit for a few years, just know for my own good the truth in regard to my atheism, and be 'un-baptized' on my own schedule?